So: what happens when you send funds to an exchange without a destination tag? They simply don't know where to route (credit) your deposit. Like when calling a company: no extension? Explain who you want to talk to.
If an exchange ever forces you to enter a destination tag when sending to your own private account address (r...) enter 0 (zero)
It'll take time for exchanges & wallet providers to add support for the new "X-Address". Until everybody does, entering Destination Tags will still be a thing