The push to repurpose social and legal rules to send positive messages unmoors the rules from their purpose.
It might seem superficially "nice", progressive, accepting -- it is corrupting.
The mother is the person with responsibility for the child from birth.
You don't take that away to send a positive message.
You take it away if you want to unrecognise mothers
You take them away to unrecognise consent, to unrecognise "no"
You do this to women & children
You do this with the authority of the CPS, police, teachers
You corrupt the institutions that are meant to protect
You do not lie with the authority of the press to send a positive message.
You do it to confuse & abuse
You don't undermine this to be nice.
You undermine it to stop thought.
It is corruption
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You don't tell people to lie in court to be nice
womenarehuman.com/uk-courts-orde…
If you find yourself w power to set rules, guidance, judgments your responsibility is to the purpose you are meant to serve
If we ignore that to be nice (or to remain employable) that is corruption, just as much as brown envelopes