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@CCChatMagazine
May 4, 2020 • 4 tweets • 2 min read • Read on X
For reasons I can’t go into, this killing is affecting me more than I expected.

Two, still very young, boys will be celebrating their birthdays in a few days without a mother.
It is also bringing up memories of another local #domestichomicide that left 4 girls as orphans. >>
Debbie Ruse was murdered, with an axe, in 2014 by her butcher husband who then killed himself. Many in the community talked about what a lovely man he was and yet two days before, he told his sister "the only way out was to kill Deborah, but he couldn't live with this". >>
The warning signs are there.
They are always there.
There needs to be a better way of educating people to see the signs and to know how to ACT on them.

We need to encourage society to not be bystanders, to not think that what goes on behind closed doors is a private matter.
We need to learn from the public and media response of the murder of Clodagh Hawe and her three boys and how the murderer Alan Hawe was painted as this fine and upstanding citizen when he was anything but.
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First and foremost, a climate where bullies are rewarded.
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