Harcharran Dhaliwal was accused of the manslaughter of his wife Gurjit. The 45-year-old mother of two sons was found hanged with a fresh wound on her forehead.
Her diary catalogued incidents of violence and psychological abuse. Her husband admitted causing the wound.
At the time, defence lawyers won a ruling from an Old Bailey judge that Dhaliwal could not be held criminally liable for his wife's death and the case could not go ahead. This decision was upheld on appeal.
Gurjit’s brother said, of the decision: “ My sister experienced years of psychological abuse and domestic violence. I witnessed the results of this and amongst other things her handwritten journals bear witness to this abuse......”
“How can there be so much evidence and yet no punishment for taking my sister's life?"
The appeal court judges said that causing a recognised psychiatric illness by abuse could amount to bodily harm and if it caused a suicide it could come within the ambit of manslaughter.
But while psychiatrists and psychologists told prosecutors they believed that the abuse had triggered Gurjit Dhaliwal’s decision to take her own life, there was insufficient evidence for a jury to conclude that she suffered from a recognised psychiatric illness.
Nazir Afzal said: “The decision to bring a prosecution was not taken lightly. We desperately wanted the jury to hear about the life of Gurjit and what she is alleged to have suffered at the hands of her husband, Harcharran. Regrettably that won't happen now.”
He said the CPS had brought the groundbreaking prosecution to establish the principle, which the appeal court accepted, "that if you harm your partner and cause them physical and mental harm and subsequently drive them to suicide, then you can be guilty of manslaughter.”
As a result of the decision, Refuge called for the Law Commission to urgently review the whole area of psychological manslaughter as part of its current Homicide Review.
The suicide of Gurjit Dhaliwal was also the origin of this research:
Munro VE, Aitken R (2019). From hoping to help: Identifying and responding to suicidality amongst victims of domestic abuse. International Review of Victimology. Available from: doi.org/10.1177/026975…
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First and foremost, a climate where bullies are rewarded.
When they’re not held to account but rewarded with getting their own way because others are too scared to confront them, that is the perfect Petri dish for #coercivecontrol
Different rules for different people.
Making allowances for, or ignoring bullying/inappropriate/abusive behaviours of people we like or admire.
Holding them to a lower standard because they’re family, or a celebrity, or wealthy, or we benefit in some way from looking away.
I detest the term *parental alienation* with a passion and now I won’t use it.
It used to be called ‘Threat Therapy’.
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I’ve been told, frequently, that not all perpetrators are men, that mums get *alienated* too and that denying the existence of PA means denying that abusers DO and WILL maliciously sever a relationship between parent and child.
And yes, all of the above IS true.
But refusing to use that term is NOT the same as denying that this happens.
So, for avoidance of doubt, here is why I believe the term *parental alienation* should not be used:
Adolf Eichmann was aided by a Franciscan monk who helped him obtain an Argentine visa and who signed an application for a falsified Red Cross passport.
Eichmann masterminded the Nazi network of death camps that resulted in the murder of approximately 6 million Jews.
Josef Mengele fled to Argentina with the help of a Catholic clergy member.
Nicknamed the “Angel of Death” he conducted experiments at Auschwitz particularly on twins, pregnant women and the disabled. Mengele even tortured and killed children with his medical experiments.
“On one occasion, she said, male officers taped her phone to the ceiling, telling her: “We’re gonna watch your arse when you climb on the table.””
How a dead officer’s iPhone exposes misogyny, corruption and racism in a police force
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Ricky Jones, a retired police officer knew where many of Gwent police’s skeletons were buried, but it wasn’t until his death that his own began to emerge.
In 2020, he jumped to his death from a bridge.
He left behind his wife and three daughters.
To the outside world Jones was a respected former copper and family man. But behind closed doors he subjected his family to decades of #domesticabuse.