You can’t get over your ex because you mistakenly think “she is special, unique and one of a kind.” You project all sorts of silly idealizations unto her. Your imagination inflates her worth skyhigh, and rationalizes away her flaws.
You have nothing else exciting going on in your life, so you end up daydreaming about her - further increasing her perceived worth. She is nowhere near as valuable as your emotions trick you thinking she is. There’s millions of girls just like her or even better out there.
You’re in “love” with your false perception of idealization, & addicted to certain feelings. These are feelings that any girl could give you - given the right conditions. Don’t fall for the illusion of believing in her inflated worth just because you had some shared experiences.
