1. Make yourself aware when you got distracted
2. Redirect the focus back to your target
These 2 simple steps are all you need
No need to overcomplicate it with too much theory & items
A strong habit that helps more than it hurts
And it's all about doing less..👇
And we all have our personal definitions
☆My personal definition is to control the mind.
☆It has a flurry of thoughts. Picture a bowl of water being shaken.
☆picture. This is when your are AWARE of one of the flurry of thoughts
☆the intellect
☆the ego
Don't be.
If you can control 1 thing, you can control MANY things
A lot of other parts are moving behind the scenes.
However, you're not aware.
You just focus on clicking the accelerator
Its more about exercising your awareness
We have different methods of getting to the same truth
But awareness is something no one can deny
Make your awareness powerful.
And the mind becomes tamed
You can do a lot of things with it
The more you meditate, the more your mind feels like matter.
Plant ideas to your subconscious mind
Create art in the mind & then relay it to the external world..etc
With the external world, there is space, time & causation
With the mind, the only rules you have are the ones you place on yourself
No way around that.
And meditation is the finest technology to get there
But few will put in the work
The mind doesn't tame on it's own. It requires an aware trainer
Just sit and observe what happens.
Your first insight will be that your mind is always moving
Normal...
To be wavy
Therefore that's where the training part comes in
5 minutes a day beats 0 minutes a day.
5 minutes a day beats 30 minutes a day for 4 weeks & then quitting cold Turkey
Focus on working your way up
You don't go to the gym trying to lift the heaviest weight possible If it's your first time in the gym.
So have that same mentality with meditation
So set aside a certain amount of day everyday
And I recommend having a similar time you do it every day
I do it in the morning & night
1. Make yourself aware when you lost focus of your target.
2. Gently bring the mind back to the target
The target can be breath or some image.
Remember what I said... it's the nature of the mind to wander
All good bud
So the simple fact that you made yourself AWARE that you got distracted will pay dividends
Sort of like a bicep curl for the mind
That's bc at this stage, you identify a lot with your thoughts
Your awareness muscle is strengthening champ
Side effects of meditation include:
Enhanced focus
Emotional intelligence
Better ability to learn
Mental toughness
Etc
Become a mega mind
Be confident by taking time out everyday to build the habit of meditation
It's a habit that spills over to other parts of your life & allows you to amplify your presence
Meditation will not turn poor habits upside
If you meditate & go back to scrolling non stop on your phone, binge drinking, hanging with toxic ppl...
Your effects won't be as strong
Adopt the level up mentality.
'What's that?'
☆make today better than yesterday & tomorrow better than today
This simple mantra makes you improve
Be consistent.
Stick with it long enough until the 'routine' becomes a 'ritual.'
Not because we have to.
But because we want to
You'll get there too. Just keep climbing that ladder
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