-Can't be alone
-Low self-esteem
Feels good in the beginning of these relationships.
Over time, highly toxic
You wanna know?
'I wanna know.'
Then you shall know...👇
Which is why its great to use it correctly
But the game of life is us using our time incorrectly to gain wisdom to use it correctly
It seems noble.
Yet, self development is a journey from within, not by coercion
They will only find you to be a nuisance for doing so
Yet, our noble minds try to do this
1. Can't be alone
2. Have low self esteem
2 often leads to 1
So these 2 peope are often the same
That's the core fundamental of self improvements
Self esteem will not just be presented to you because you 'wish' for it
Not the case.
Self esteem needs to be ACTIVELY worked on
So...the person with low self esteem can put in the work to improve themselves
Or just take the shortcut & find someone who is improving themselves
Self development is a mindset.
And opposite mindsets can coexist for so long
That's a different topic
All I'm coming down to is....
Is the mindset:
-Empowering
OR
-Draining
?
It can be for a few weeks
Few months
Few years...
Until time runs its course
A draining person can pull an empowering person down
Rather than an empowering person pulling a draining person up
Read that again.
And they make the high social value person feel even more important
Bc everyone likes the feeling of being 'needed.'
And it becomes a person trying to fix the emotional state of another person.
They need attention
And if you are gone for a few weeks for a business trip...then who knows, they may seek attention
And red flags buried are red flags that pile up
And empowering force can be with a draining force for so long
Remember that
But these are 2 core fundamentals
Low self esteem in itself is not bad...as long as it's being actively worked on
Beware of trying to change people
Invest it wisely, or learn life's lessons the painful way
Either way, life is geared for you to learn at one point or another
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