These two elements play a crucial role in how we process information
It's why we get good ideas in the shower, driving, walking, while on vacation, etc
Setting too dense of an expectation, viewing it as a big deal.
Attaches heavy emotions around the work
Which then requires us to be in a high emotional state to show up to do the work
Setting too big a expectation, too strong of a filter for what comes out
So nothing comes out
aka "running out of things to say" and feeling awkward
Because we are not forcing or focusing on the subject as intensely while in the shower
All that repressed energy has an opportunity to pour out
Often we can get caught up in the smallest details and lose sight of the bigger picture, making it hard to connect the dots
When we physically step away, naturally we zoom out on the bigger picture
The dots connect & can reveal themselves more clearly
When the expectation is viewed as too big in the bedroom physically he can't 'get it up'
This phenomena of energy being blocked is very real in every aspect. Working, Socially, Romantically, Athletically 'choking'
..it's everywhere
Or do we gotta hop in the shower every 15 minutes
No need for frantic showering
The solution is much simpler...
- Maintaining the standard of quality in EDITING
Loosening the filter to allow the gold nuggets to flow.
Any excess muddy water can be edited out
You can always edit.
Yes even in the bedroom example. Because you see how the other person is reacting
When socializing letting it flow and calibrating after saying what you wanted to share
The ability to more or less mostly share gold nuggets with minimal muddy water
But that comes from reps actually doing the work in any venture
Basketball for example, more shots = better scoring percentage
Calming water + zooming out from stepping away + less tensely focusing on the subject
It's why you figure out the right thing to say or the best point to make in an argument while in the shower or laying in bed
Is because this puts the brain/body at ease
Which allows flow.
It puts brain in a lower brainwave state closer to subconscious field of intelligence