College had always been very grad-school-focused, for me: do the NSF REUs, do the industry internships, take the GRE, get a PhD, be lady Carl Sagan.
But halfway through senior year, my mom got very sick (heart issues); and I needed to get a big-girl-job to support us.
That job isn't something that I would have selected, by a long mile—but it let me experiment with machine learning, with data science, and with tools like Spark, on massive amounts of accelerators/compute.
...which meant that I had time to go to conferences, contribute to open-source, found a PyLadies chapter in Houston, more.
The "extracurriculars" that I did while working at CVX, and the professional experiences, were what made getting a job at Microsoft (and then Google) possible
But I ever executed on "grand career plans"?
Hard nope. 😊