A colleague I barely talk to offered to take me for lunch & I was hesitant cos all those workmen I buy lunch for will go hungry while I eat in some fancy restaurant. But I felt bad turning him down since he's a lonely chap & I felt he must really need the company
I got there late and they had all left. My day is ruined and this colleague cost her a day's sales.
But I'm sure he meant well though!
Before doing good, make sure what you are doing is not selfish and it must be necessary, relevant and valued.
It's a horrible position to give a favour to someone who sees it as a favour to you by receiving your favour!!
In all, never stop being kind!