*Classical masters, bards who never studied, knew it well, it came naturally to them. Others learn it, it appears too tough & master poets tell you basics, correct.
Everyone is free to write. Knowledge of prosody must not be used to deter anyone. Some senior poets, masters don't help, rather use it to reject others.
*There are ways to easily make you understand. How the words are broken, where you can get relaxation, etc.
*But it is still believed that if you want to write literary ghazal or even nazm, (except Nasri Nazm), there has to be meter. But apart from that, there is another aspect.
Rather than telling, correcting and asking him to keep writing in his way, he sits on the budding youth's shoulder
*In case, he tries to read Dr Naresh, understands a bit, then may watch Bhatnagar Shadab sb's videos, he may get overwhelmed, starts writing in Hindi & becomes a poet.
And, Urdu has an extremely tough system about judging poetry because of a long history, tradition, three hundred years of master poets who took inspiration from Bedil & Hafiz etc
*This is also an extreme view. I remember Ustad-i-Shahar Ishrat Qadri sahab in Bhopal, would instantly tell youngsters--go write prose.
Then you see those who know a bit, acting smart, try to patronize, while on other hand give 'crash course' to son or preferred shagird, but reject others
*Lekin aap izhaar par 'qaid' bhi nahi laga sakte. If someone writes, he-she is sastisfied, it's fine. They seek your help, give it. It may not be literary as per your standards.
*And if asked, don't discourage but make person realise what he can do, best. Not 'Gyan ka Ghamand' or be 'pir tasma-pa' unknowingly
*Lot of Hindi knowing youth now learning arooz, practice daily on FB. This is a topic that needs our attention, discussion & it may go on a bit longer. See ashishjog2.wordpress.com/2014/09/23/art…
Y'day Dheerendra Singh gave 'misra' on FB, asked others 'girah lagaiye'--compose she'r in this pattern, for practice.
*If someone asks, help, but wrong to say, "I won't consider you a poet unless you prove yourself in this format"
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