Thread: Truth allows you to 'get away' with more than lying ever will
Authenticity - a cheat code & super power
Authenticity - a cheat code & super power
- It is much easier to kiss in the middle of a date
vs 3 months after never having kissed
- It easier to talk to strangers if you do it almost everyday
vs taking to 1 new person a year
📜 The Formula - Intentions, Authenticity, Density & Expectations
vs 3 months after never having kissed
- It easier to talk to strangers if you do it almost everyday
vs taking to 1 new person a year
📜 The Formula - Intentions, Authenticity, Density & Expectations
If from day one you communicate you won't be exclusive
The intention is set and expectations are clear
If you try to pull off cheating without that
It comes across as horrible & disrespectful
The EXACT same action was taken...
Intimacy with another person
The intention is set and expectations are clear
If you try to pull off cheating without that
It comes across as horrible & disrespectful
The EXACT same action was taken...
Intimacy with another person
Yet expectation, intentions, & authenticity changed the entire reaction
💵 When pitching your offer to followers
If you do so early & often it becomes the expectation & intentions are clear
This makes it MUCH easier for you to promote yourself
Because of DENSITY
💵 When pitching your offer to followers
If you do so early & often it becomes the expectation & intentions are clear
This makes it MUCH easier for you to promote yourself
Because of DENSITY
If you go 2 years never plugging anything
When you do plug something it will feel like it's coming out of left field
It's foreign to what your audience is accustom to
There is of course a way to smoothly do your first launch
But that's a topic for another thread
When you do plug something it will feel like it's coming out of left field
It's foreign to what your audience is accustom to
There is of course a way to smoothly do your first launch
But that's a topic for another thread
👄 Back to kissing
When that intention is set early on you're being authentic and clear in what the dynamic is
Waiting for months, they don't know
Are you just friends? Are you even dating?
If you just want hook ups
That's ok, if the intention is set EARLY
When that intention is set early on you're being authentic and clear in what the dynamic is
Waiting for months, they don't know
Are you just friends? Are you even dating?
If you just want hook ups
That's ok, if the intention is set EARLY
Giving off boyfriend/girlfriend vibes for weeks
Then saying you only want hook ups
People expected one thing & got another
You'll be amazed how much more you can 'get away with' with truth instead of lies
"The truth will set you free"
Then saying you only want hook ups
People expected one thing & got another
You'll be amazed how much more you can 'get away with' with truth instead of lies
"The truth will set you free"
A big reason people lie is FEAR
They fear their true intention will be rejected & not work
So they do what they think the other person wants to see, to keep them around
You both are done a disservice
You must maintain the burden of a lie
They are manipulated
They fear their true intention will be rejected & not work
So they do what they think the other person wants to see, to keep them around
You both are done a disservice
You must maintain the burden of a lie
They are manipulated
If you want to earn $ from your following that's FINE
- Say it with your chest
- Be proud of what you have to offer
Apologetic pitches won't make people think you're more noble
It makes them SKEPTICAL & feels like you're manipulating them to get something you don't believe in
- Say it with your chest
- Be proud of what you have to offer
Apologetic pitches won't make people think you're more noble
It makes them SKEPTICAL & feels like you're manipulating them to get something you don't believe in
Logan Paul plugs 5 times per video
He even tells people to "always plug" & secure the bag
From day 1 that expectation is set
The reps of consistency make it totally expected and not out of the ordinary
Alpha M does a 2 minute sponsored pitch EVERY video
He even tells people to "always plug" & secure the bag
From day 1 that expectation is set
The reps of consistency make it totally expected and not out of the ordinary
Alpha M does a 2 minute sponsored pitch EVERY video
These are 2 of the biggest channels, making MULTIPLE MILLIONS per year. Loyal dedicated followers
- Not promoting won't make people like you more
- Promoting won't stop people that do like you
Remember:
FEAR is why people don't state their intention
- Not promoting won't make people like you more
- Promoting won't stop people that do like you
Remember:
FEAR is why people don't state their intention
Honest conflict beats dishonest harmony
Repress your intentions and you don't get what you want
Express your intentions you get exactly what you want
Those that 'reject' the offer. GOOD!
Means it wasn't a good fit. Repressing yourself for their approval = Dishonest harmony
Repress your intentions and you don't get what you want
Express your intentions you get exactly what you want
Those that 'reject' the offer. GOOD!
Means it wasn't a good fit. Repressing yourself for their approval = Dishonest harmony
When you are authentic people feel safe
- Intentions are clear
- Expectations are clear
The smiley salesman
The creepy guy in dating
Tries to manipulate & sneak in.
They play the 'what you want to hear' card
THEN... they try to introduce a new intention
- Intentions are clear
- Expectations are clear
The smiley salesman
The creepy guy in dating
Tries to manipulate & sneak in.
They play the 'what you want to hear' card
THEN... they try to introduce a new intention
It's manipulation
- Doing what people want to hear/see
- Building trust around that expectation
Once they 'got em' they try to change the agreement
Revealing their true intentions
THIS is the primary reason "nice guys" get flack
Has nothing to do with being a 'nice' person
- Doing what people want to hear/see
- Building trust around that expectation
Once they 'got em' they try to change the agreement
Revealing their true intentions
THIS is the primary reason "nice guys" get flack
Has nothing to do with being a 'nice' person
It's when they try to stack 'nice points' hiding their true intentions
Then trying to 'cash in their nice chips' & stating new intentions
It's like being promised easy pay for a job
You take the job
Then after 2 months they change ever aspect of your job and change your pay
Then trying to 'cash in their nice chips' & stating new intentions
It's like being promised easy pay for a job
You take the job
Then after 2 months they change ever aspect of your job and change your pay
This could very well be a book
But hopefully this was a decent introduction
- State your intentions EARLY
- Be congruent in what you say & do (Authentic)
- The mind likes certainty, when you totally change up it feels like a different person than who they signed up to be with
But hopefully this was a decent introduction
- State your intentions EARLY
- Be congruent in what you say & do (Authentic)
- The mind likes certainty, when you totally change up it feels like a different person than who they signed up to be with
It is BETTER to be rejected asking for what you want
Then to be accepted for never asking
"The truth will set you free"
Thank you for reading
Cheers,
- Yous
Then to be accepted for never asking
"The truth will set you free"
Thank you for reading
Cheers,
- Yous
