We all know the *conservatives* that insist nothing’s happening, nothing’s gonna happen, Biden’s gonna win, Trump will be unprepared & have gained ZERO confidence by all they’ve seen.
Want to know why?
Not in the traditional sense, but on a much deeper emotional level
I loved my two dogs more than anything other than my wife
For 10+ years I dreaded them dying. I kept telling myself - they’re going to die & you’re going to lose them. It ruined hours
Then, after 10+ years, our sweet dog died very suddenly. I’d never had - nor lost - a dog
I wept for 3 days, & the pain was unlike anything I’d experienced
(I love few people/creatures, but I love them with all I have)
& after the worst...
I thought about all those hours I’d spent dreading the pain of losing our sweet pup
& the pain I’d imagined was nowhere near what the REAL PAIN was
Then I had a second & much more important epiphany:
SO IT WOULDN’T HURT SO BADLY WHEN IT HAPPENED
This turned out to be nonsense, & the cruelest trick I’d played on myself
You cannot trick yourself into avoiding pain/disappointment
BUT
Thinking that you can control your emotional pain by living in a state of constant negativity “so you’re never disappointed”
is SUPERSTITIOUS GARBAGE
Life is full of pain. Life is full of suffering. But you CANNOT..
This is what our defeatist Conservative friends are doing
I guarantee you the day after Trump wins the 2020 election, they’ll go RIGHT back to
- It won’t matter
- BO/HRC won’t be punished
- it’ll be undone in 2024
They’re vampires
The more evidence I threw at them, the more they moaned. Like Liberals, no historical memory
Like Drew Barrymore in “50 First Dates”
***they start each day at zero***
So only 1 thing to do:
If Trump lost (he won’t) the disappointment, rage & sadness would be beyond imagining
So do your best
Don’t let fear dictate your life
You can’t avoid pain
But you can create pain by avoiding joy
CHOOSE JOY.