I didn’t know RBG. I didn’t have the honor of meeting her. Although I desperately wish that I had. Each of us has our own reason for why she inspired us and why we loved her. Here’s mine... as an activist, I made the decision to work with men...
I say it a lot “If women alone could stop sexual violence, we would have already done it.” Knowing that men are the solution & knowing that men take up every space that results in any decisions made for women - I also knew that I had to be able to connect w men...
RBG was a role model for me. Consider everything she accomplished in her life and how many men she had to engage, educate, and empower to see her goals and dreams come to fruition...
When I read her quote “Fight for the things that you care about, but do it in a way that will lead others to join you.” I immediately think about men and this quote guides my work...
Her life inspires me that the impossible is possible. That the perceived “enemy” can also become the ally and that if you stay the course and fight for what is right - you can leave the world better than you found it.
I miss you, RBG. May you forever Rest In Peace & Power 🙏🏼
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He was at Baylor when I shared my story of gang rape with the Baylor football team. (Coach Grobe had brought me in) Tate Wallis, another coach under Art Briles, pulled me aside after sharing my story and confronted me about why I was there &
“Who brought me in?” He said “Art didn’t do anything wrong” it was “a conspiracy against Baylor football” bc everyone hated them - meaning other coaches & football programs. “It was a campus problem, not a football problem” Tate was later arrested for groping a high school girl
Kendal ended up at University of Houston with Coach Applewhite. By this time I had been railing against Art and Kendal being hired by anyone at any school in a very public manner. I had multiple discussions w Applewhite about why he would hire Kendal. Long story short,
Help me flood Twitter w the tweets in this thread & take action at this link: bit.ly/TakeBackIXNow
.@BetsyDeVosED: You removed the recommended 60-day investigatory timeline. Schools are now free to continue to delay investigations for an unspecified time without an end in sight. #TakeBackIX
.@BetsyDeVosED: According to your definition of sexual harassment, survivors will have to endure repeated levels of abuse in order for their schools to take them seriously. #TakeBackIX
Since my TL is FULL of ppl calling me a racist cunt & a stupid bitch over this article from @BSO. Let’s look at everything he claims “proves” the victim is a liar and that she ruined Shawn Oakmans life with a false accusation.
I agree, physical evidence is important & the victim got a rape kit done which is an invasive forensic exam given by a trained professional. Documented injuries - vaginal tears, abrasions, bleeding, bruising - and BOTH sides agreed the injuries were “significant” & “concerning”