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4 Oct, 9 tweets, 2 min read
*Thread* - Needing nothing attracts everything

Building your kingdom Image
Do they need you more than you need them?

Answering this question honestly, can almost always predict the outcome

(Sales, Dates, Friendships...anything)

Are you inviting them to your kingdom

Or are you inviting yourself into their kingdom?
Be like the lighthouse

Firm & grounded

In the country (life) you’ve built

You shine so bright those who see the lighthouse are attracted to come

Getting out of the sea into certainty
To the promise land, where their needs & desires are met
Fill your own cup
Build your country

Then you need nothing

Needing nothing attracts everything

Now when you invite people to your kingdom

it is genuinely more needed/desired by them

Because you live there, you already have it & invite them to share in it
But if it is you who is lost at sea

You need it more than they do

When you port they will check your passport

Make you jump through hoops, qualify yourself, prove yourself, chase

Build your kingdom & you’ll never need to chase again

You’ll already have what others chase
Less you need the more you have
More you have the more you give
More you give the more you receive

When you are lost at sea you have nothing to give

So you must always chase for entry into other people’s reality & often get rejected

Needing approval & access to that reality
It’s a uneasy feeling

Your emotional well-being is in the hands of others reactions to you

A limiting & suffocating feeling

Ignore other kingdoms for now

Drive back home. You may not like what you see
🦋 Nurture your garden & the butterfly will come

Do not chase the butterfly

Build your kingdom both internally (mindsets, frame, beliefs, state)

And externally (reflections of your state/beliefs/mindsets)
- income, hobbies, relationships, social circle, etc
🏰 Seek first the kingdom & all your other desires shall be added on to you

Thank you for reading

Cheers,
- Yous

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4 Oct
- Inability to delay gratification reveals

There is currently not enough gratification

- Inability to act without certainty reveals

There is currently not enough certainty in their life
Taking on additional discomfort (challenges & goals)

Can’t be done if discomfort levels are already maxed out

Delayed gratification will not be possibly when you desperately need gratification
Taking on uncertainty will not be possible if uncertainty is maxed out

Less you need the more you have

More you have the more you can give

To give effort & energy towards goals (taking on good stress)

Our stress levels can’t be maxed out
If they are we have little to give
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Man put his beach stuff in crowded area

Leaves to go in the water. Actor comes & steals his radio

10% of people made an attempt to stop him

2nd experiment - before going in the water he would ask

“Can you watch my stuff?”

This time 90% of people attempted to stop the thief
🔑 Humans strongest desire is to be congruent

To who they believe they are, say they are, & who others believe they are

By simply agreeing to watch his stuff

People found bravery & inconvenienced themselves to confront a thief

over a radio that belongs to a stranger
🔑 How to use this

1) Ask
Or
2) Make a complimenting statement

“I like how you’re clear thinking.

It’s very refreshing to talk to someone who recognizes patterns and quickly makes good decisions”

Them accepting this praise sets that identity to be congruent to...
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I relied on talent when I was younger

No Plan
No Strategy

I'd just show up to anything & get decent results

But I can tell you from experience

A untalented person with a plan
Will beat a talented person with no plan

Which is why my results were decent not great
Here's why

- How often I showed up was inconsistent

- Wasn't doing the highest ROI things

- Would often need to make miracles happen to compensate for wasted time/inefficiencies

- Getting decent results but knowing I was capable of great results destroyed confidence
^ that last one is important

Seeing untalented people, beginners, even incompetent people at times

Get superior results

Messes with your head
Self worth, confidence, etc

It is ESSENTIAL to have a plan, discipline, & strategy
To allow your talent to truly be utilized/rewarded
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The weak seek to kick others off their pedestal

To bring them down to their level

The powerful stand high on a pedestal they’ve forged of unbreakable gold

They bring others up
Both do so unconsciously

The weak have weird vibes which lower the energy

Make passive aggressive remarks, criticism & insults to bring down the vibe of others

Unconsciously bringing it down to match theirs
The powerful operating from their high pedestal

By default the way they carry themselves unconsciously raises everyone’s vibe

Makes people feel good about themselves, raising them up

Without even trying it’s their default mode of operation, their vibration
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“I want _____”

“But I also want...

- To not risk looking foolish
- Not risk rejection
- Not ask unless I know I will get
- Not sacrifice or let go of anything”

You always get what you want

When you want the ‘but’ more than the actual desire, you won’t get the actual desire
Allow the desire to land

By opening your hand

But with a massive checklist of ultimatums as the dominant desire

Your hands remain closed to what you want to grasp on to what you don’t want in exchange for it
Once you make a decision & set a clear intention

The universe tries to deliver gold to you

But if you grasp onto bronze with your hands closed

the gold can’t land in your hand
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The craving is not for the substance, person, or thing. It’s for the feeling

We orient for homeostasis

When we lack we gravitate towards filling that lack

The feeling can come from consuming or producing

We only....
Store 11 seconds of energy (ATP)

When we start moving/asking/doing the demand is seen for more

...and the body produces more ATP
(Filling your own cup)

The other way is by consuming/taking/needing

Eating calories for energy
Eating for feelings
Both consuming & producing stimulate the brain (feelings)

Both provide energy

One is filling your own cup

The other is external dependency (needing, taking, lacking)
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