This is a great breakdown of the process of stuttering and how it personally feels. I went through years of speech therapy growing up to work on mine, and to this day my words still get caught, stumbled, or run together. I am mortified when it happens in a VO session.
Certain phrases still trip me up continuously, & the triggering anxiety makes the stumbling worse. I’ve learned to try & calmly take a beat to try to reset. The kindest of clients (thank you) often will change the wording of the script to avoid the problematic phrase altogether.
Improvising live nearly weekly is its own anxiety when it comes to this, & every game is preceded with an internal ritual of calming in hopes of untying myself. While the comfort of my friends around me helps tremendously, that panic never truly goes away... it only diminishes.
I am thankful that as I got older, the teasing mostly faded into understanding and patience, and in doing so lessened my stutter. It’s amazing how far a little compassion can go.
Show some for those you encounter who struggle with similar challenges. Your patience is golden.
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Countless years of watching my (mostly female) friends navigate the predatory landscape of events and industry, I’ve grown hyper protective. Seeing so many abusers come to light is such a necessary reckoning, but finding some to be acquaintances is deeply disappointing.
I have seen behavior like the many speaking out have pointed towards. It’s pervasive in so many places, in so many industries, and it’s our responsibility as friends and genuinely GOOD PEOPLE to call that shit out and protect those who are targeted, in the moment and afterward.
It really doesn’t take that much effort to not be a fucking creep-ass terrible person. This is a legacy issue with society and power structures everywhere. Teach your children that being a SUCCESS isn’t acquiring “trophies” or exploring/pushing the boundaries of respect/adoration
As with most anything we do, we are but one avenue for entertainment, merch, etc. We appreciate the support, and work with community creators on much of what we do, but I also want to remind you there are independent community creators who do amazing, custom work! On theme...
The amazing @marajade33082, who gifted the amazing bags some of us use on stream and worked with us on the standard dice bag we launched today, is nearing an opening in their wait-list for custom dice bags soon! Keep an eye out!
The brilliant @daniyogani also creates beautiful, custom pocket dice bags, far more tailored to your liking than our standard one. If you want something more personalized to your tastes, they are an amazing option!
Every six months or so, I see discussions pop up defending CR from people saying it “isn’t real D&D”. (Mind you, I don’t see most of the instigating statements, which might mean I have the right people muted...?)
Regardless, the whole premise of this argument is hilarious to me.
First off, who are you to define what is real D&D? What makes your narrow, personal experience so unilaterally qualified to make that judgement regarding a game that is designed to create wholly unique experiences at every table?
Second off, if it isn’t how YOU play D&D, that’s completely awesome! There are SO many ways to play, and our game is in no means an instruction manual. If there are elements of it you like, feel free to incorporate them! If not, then hells yeah, make your games uniquely your own.
If this world is to survive, it needs a LOT more empathy. We need to stop focusing on the things that make us different, because we all ultimately have far more in common than you think. We need to eschew the cult of personality, instead thinking and researching for ourselves.
Give our neighbor the benefit of the doubt & listen. Exchange ideas & discuss disagreements with respect & intent to learn. Put ourselves in the shoes of others & try to understand their perspectives. Know that deep down, under it all, EVERYONE just wants to be loved & happy. <3
It takes effort, I know, but it’s the most worthwhile endeavor. It will be met with opposition, and don’t let it prevent us from calling bullshit when you need to, but it’s a perspective we cannot afford to lose.