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As we all know (even if you are knowing now), our book for October is WHOLENESS by @toureroberts .

This thread is to share some lessons from the book review

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Inner security is vital on our way to wholeness.

How is this gotten?

By rising above insecurity which meansthe fear of rejection, being unsafe, unshielded and unprotected.

Wholeness heals insecurity.
It is composed of the God of wholeness which also entails unconditional love.
Four steps to uproot an insecurity:
1) Discern the feelings.

2) Identify the thought behind it: Feelings are traceable to thoughts.

3) Name the storyteller and debunk the lie: If the thought doesn't come from God, it's a lie.

Know that hurt people hurt people.
4) Renovate your mind: See yourself in a new light.

Chapter 7 talks about relationships. It says Two halves don't make a whole.

- When brokenness builds a house, it won't last long.
- When physical attraction is the beginning or start of a relationship, it will come crashing.
Five Must Haves Before Saying I Do.

1) Chemistry: Soul connection. Peaceful Familiarity.

2) Connection: Chemistry begins to turn into love.

3) Wholeness: This is needed in order to decipher whether it's love or codependency.

4) Divine Confirmation
5) A Sense Of Purpose: Be clear about this as your individual purpose should compliment that of your partner as your genotype should.🙈😹

1 whole individual + 1 whole individual = 1 whole relationship.

📌 Knowing our patterns.

Patterns are recurring trends or series of events.
It is composed of three things:
Perception, Processing and Reactions.

It's vital to know ourselves because there is a whole new world inside of us. Develop a pattern that makes you introspective, it can be asking questions.

You can also check the fruit you are producing.
E.g: pain, loss of friends e.t.c to trace the pattern, this requires you and God.
It's a vital process that produces results.

It's also important to know why we did something as this will be very helpful.

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