Honour your intergenerational pain, I would never suggest otherwise- but draw from your intergenerational resilience.

My grandparents & ancestors lived through genocides, colonisation, emigrating, racism, patriarchy- more than I can imagine. My maternal grandmother was married
at 14, she wasn’t literate, my Grandfather educated her. She died in 2017 the author of multiple books, recipient of awards, a matriarch in the British Asian community.

My paternal grandmother was widowed at 50, and took on more responsibility than women of her generation were
allowed to even think of. She lived austerely like a nun almost, stoic, courageous, and always in good humour- after losing everything.

Immigrants often have no option, but they’re also brave & adventurous of spirit.

After partition so many displaced Indians & Pakistanis
were forced to start again from nothing. Both my parents suffered horrific traumas.

I could lie down & die and say how unfair- but I chose to, as they all taught me, to draw on their bravery, resilience, openness, adventurous spirits & stoicism. That is their legacy.

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1. You say something innocuous.
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4. You’re essentially attacked & told with great vitriol that ‘impact ALWAYS trumps intent’.
5. You feel shamed, wonder how you didn’t know this & everyone else seems to, vulnerable (key emotion)- and you internalise the ‘rule’.
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I believe in liberal values like equality, individual autonomy, civil liberties, tolerance of other perspectives & people, secularism, democracy, openness, freedom of thought & speech.

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It censors free speech & inhibits civil liberties.
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