It’s really been bothering me & I’m going to try to articulate why.
I think what it comes down to, ultimately, is the ripple effect.
I think, what it comes down to is tangible, real harm.
Once you start to platform fascism as normal life, it’s really hard to go back.
It’s like any kind of hate (or love) - once you platform it, it takes on a life of its own - and, crucially where hate is concerned, *it validates the position & makes it mainstream.*
Hate is easy.
Psychiatrist Elisabeth Kübler-Ross is quoted as saying that there are essentially only two human emotions, love and fear.
Hate is driven by fear. So when editors choose to allow columns of this nature to proceed, at a base level it’s reinforcing the fear.
It normalises it.
The motivation for the writer might be entirely different - to present an opposing viewpoint to generate clicks, to remain relevant in a world that *is* slowly moving on from reckons that centre ego over critical thinking.
But the result is “XYZ high profile person gets my fear.”
“I imagine one of the reasons people cling to their hates so stubbornly is because they sense, once hate is gone, they will be forced to deal with pain.” - James Baldwin
Hate is easy. We saw this recently in the NZ election, when it went largely unchallenged - & it earned votes.
We are not at a tipping point in New Zealand.
We’re not on the brink of authoritarianism.
But I think we’re at a point where we need to decide how we’re going to show up in the world - & if the values we hold still apply.
We need to decide what we’ll challenge - uncompromisingly.
Donald Trump, who without a doubt, is an authoritarian, is a fascist, convinced people to vote for him using fear as a weapon - much like Hitler did.
We see echoes of it here, from “5G” to the concerning “These people are communists.”
It’s on us if we fail to learn from history.
It’s on us if we fail to listen to experts & continue to treat Donald Trump as “entertainment” when we write.
It’s on us if we decide to treat facts as optional, even in opinion columns.
We do a disservice to democracy & to the values we say we hold by not providing the truth.
“Many of the worst man-made events that ever occurred were not the product of evil geniuses. Instead they were the product of a parade of idiots and lunatics, incoherently flailing their way through events.”
It’s important to remember that there’s a reason for “Lest we forget.”
There is a reason that prior to the 2016 election, The Huffington Post put this against every single article they wrote about Donald Trump.
Normalising fear and hate means allowing writing about Donald Trump to skew towards admiration.
There is *nothing* admirable about this.
NZ, as an example of a functioning democracy, can express a range of views in our media.
But I also know that hate spreads, quickly - and that “The only thing necessary for the triumph of evil is for good men to do nothing.” (Edmund Burke)
It’s because hate is easy that opinion platforms need work.
It’s because hate is easy that we need to stop celebrating buffoons & think about what the end result could be.
It’s because hate is easy that we need to platform ways out of fear as a priority - over normalising it.
Today I’m using my voice to say that I’m afraid of what happens in 3 years, if we spend 3 years unquestioningly reporting things said by those who wish to be able to say those things without consequence, to actively harm.
If we spend 3 years continuing to centre ego as opinion.
Hate has real, tangible effects.
When we posit it as a sideshow, not only does it not negate the original harm, but it minimises the threat.
The ripple effect might take time - but it has real, lasting consequences.
I worry we don’t take all the things to be concerned about seriously.
I’m going to try to pull it all into one thread because sure as hell we’ll need to start referencing this if we choose to hand him power that he should not have.
(There are a couple of content warnings through this for threats of violence and transphobia but just saying it upfront as well.)
Reasons to worry:
Bad policy that disproportionately affects the most vulnerable New Zealanders, and doesn’t appear to recognise the vast demonstrable impacts of widening income inequality.👇
Want a reminder on the process for voting?
This was my experience today:
1.) Find your nearest voting place on the list (map currently has high volume) vote.nz/voting/ways-yo…
2.)Take easy voting card, pen & mask
3.) Take photo for your social 👇
4.) Line up (social distance)
5.) Sign in using the Covid Tracer App
6.) Take easy voting card to an official who will hand you referendum/election papers
(If you forget your easy voting card, they will sort you and get you voting - this happened to someone in front of me and took three minutes to solve.)
7.) Go to voting booth
8.) Vote
9.) Put voting papers in the appropriate box
10.) Use hand sanitiser on the way out
Optional extra.) Give self a high five
That’s it. Thanks to everyone voting between now and the 17th of October. 🙌🙌🙌
The thing about the Fergus Cleaver thing is that women can literally be standing there with a broken nose in this country and no one will care.
This is why when we speak up about the people who are abusers and “buT wHere’S yoUr evIdenCe?” gets pulled out it aids the abuser.
The legal system aids the abuser.
Defamation cases? Designed to intimidate and silence.
I think that most of us can think of examples where men pursue this route and are still held up as “what a man” by many people with big platforms.
Toxicity & violence always win - we let it.
The next time someone whispers something to you & you ponder the truth because you’ve never seen bruises, take a second to think that the whisper network is quite literally one of the only systems we have to keep ourselves & others safe.
Our stories are the truest thing we have.
You know, my day doesn’t drastically change, when I vote.
My job stays steady, I will have enough food on the table.
If my day to day existence were to shift, I have ready access to well-being resources.
I keep talking about privilege, because these things can be seen as a given.
Privilege is not a given. Steady income, warm house, food, access to connection, to systems that are less likely to discount me are a privilege.
This isn’t everyone’s experience, and it’s not their failure or lack of will or hard work that is the cause.
It’s built-in inequity.
I’ve been thinking about what happens, if the person I love most in the world suddenly encountered barriers that treated her like she is not the loving, incredible human that she is.
How angry I’d be, to see her light dimmed.
How I’d want to shake the foundations of the world.
Alright. So this is what I’m going to use my voice for today.
Let me tell you a story.
I grew up in Papakura, in a single-parent family.
My Mum, partly because of the unrelenting cruelty of trying to navigate the WINZ system, couldn’t sustain a full-time job.
I got a job at 14.
This is not unusual.
When I was 16 I was going to leave school. A teacher who liked my writing urged me to stay, urged me to go to university. She’s the sole reason I kept working part time to help support my Mum, as well as going to school.
I was privileged in that support.
I am privileged in that I have steady income.
That I don’t have to navigate a system that gives me no choices.
That I don’t have to regularly deal with people who dehumanise me, minimise my value, prevent me in innumerable ways from living life fully.
My Mum is still on WINZ.