Immigrants have a complex relationship with the United States, while I think it’s easy for people to laugh how “corny” some messages may be I also don’t think many understand the sheer pressure of assimilation in the USA that makes immigrants work so hard to prove themselves.
Some empathy would be good in understanding why many immigrants laud themselves as “proud Americans” and why they work so hard to prove that. It’s because at every turn they are told they have to and that nothing they do is good enough.
Patience is something I think more radical people tend to lack. The road to disconnect from American exceptionalism is immensely long. It used to bother me too, but it’s a deeply ingrained message that takes a lot of work to unearth.
I think, especially, coming from Americans who are born there, this need to dismiss and laugh at immigrants who feel proud to have voted, who feel lucky to be in the USA dismisses much of the suffering and hurdles immigrants have had to endure to get AND stay in the USA.
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My perspective on the “healing and reconciliation” with Trump supporters as a Bosnian genocide survivor:
For healing and reconciliation to take place, you must have first admittance by the offending party and above all that party must be the one to ask for forgiveness.
As humans, we are taught that forgiveness and the ability to forgive is a virtue. But we are rarely, if ever taught, how to actually take that step, admit our wrongdoing, and ask for forgiveness. Most people are, people that have deeply fallen to propaganda even more so.
I am of the strong belief that we can and should work with people who have differing opinions than ours, political ones and personal ones. I also know that believing “Jews will replace us” and “Immigration are all rapists” is not a matter of political difference.
I respect Biden’s stance on Bosnia in the 90s, truly. But here is also where I disagree with many of my fellow Bosnians. I can’t be a single issue citizen. Even if he manages to save Bosnia from ruin, I still shudder at his other domestic and foreign policies.
The ongoing disagreement with me and my Bosnian friends isn’t that Biden wasn’t a good advocate for Bosnia. It’s that it’s not the 90s anymore, America is in turmoil, Bosnian-Americans exist and will be impacted by a lack of progressive policies too. Dayton will still exist.
And yes, I am hopeful that I will be wrong. But Biden is a fairly conservative Democrat and while I hope the left does push him on both domestic and foreign policies, his stance on many things of importance to Americans and beyond is worrying.
This is a genuine question for my Bosnian friends and colleagues; do you sincerely believe that Biden will change anything in the Balkans? Other than some strongly worded letters when Dodik acts up, I just am not optimistic at all. He supports the current structure afaik.
My disagreements with Biden’s policies aside, he was strong on Bosnia but that was in the ‘90s. He was also the VP, which gave him a modicum of influence and nothing really happened. He is a supporter of the Dayton, so while I understand Bosnian enthusiasm I don’t share it.
Don’t get me wrong, I would love to be proven wrong. Bosnia is a tiny country that is absolutely reliant on its allies, particularly the big powers for help. That’s just the reality. I’m not against US/European involvement because right now it’s just simply a necessity.
I could be wrong in my perspective of this but I am finding a lot of romanticism of the possibility of conflict amongst Americans and as someone that survived a war, I would urge you to put that romanticised notion out of your heads.
Largely, I am not amongst those that believe there will be a civil war or a conflict in the States post-election. Some violence, certainly but a lot of it also seems dramatised and slightly fear mongering too. I think that’s almost a bigger issue. Because....
When people are fed fear constantly they tend to take that fear and direct it in the worst possible manner. I’m not against being prepared for the worst, to be clear, but some of the discourse seems downright irresponsible.