Autism for me is living with my heart in my mouth, never knowing when I might speak my words in a way that offends. Energy spent self-vetting/ second guessing neurotypical sensibilities to avoid trouble is legion. This can result in being overly #AllAutistics #ActuallyAutistic 1
cautious too. Self-vetting for self-preservation in a hostile environment can suppress my voice for days, weeks, years in certain situations/ circumstances. If I 'misspeak' it could be because I feel more comfortable with you. Trust is so important, being able to laugh about 2
our differences in communication styles is a joy. When happens I know I am with true allies. I know I am accepted as I am. I don't think the true cost of neuro-normative pressure on autistic voices can be counted but it is one of the embedded/subtle 3
means of our suppression and a cause of ongoing erosion of mental health & well being. The consequences of social & economic punishment for autistic 'misspeaking' are cumulative over a lifetime fragmenting the self & damaging our livelihoods. 4
Breaking through this suppression by using 'plain speak' is clear communication and it's empowering. More direct communication styles can actually form the basis of accommodations for us. Saying what you mean can be vital to us, saving time & energy 5
If we can't intuit the subtext your words won't land. Even acknowledging different communication styles helps. Bridges across neurological types can be made through talking openly about our differences in ways which suspend judgements. This is true & joyful allyship. 6
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