Exactly 6 years ago on November 13, 2014, I received below mail from a colleague at work. I used to run a lot of trainings for my former employer.
That mail came on a day my spirit was very low and it cheered me up. Just want to share the mail.
"Good day sir ,
I am one the last batch of the newest inductees of the bank. I was so privileged to listen to you talk twice during the training at Ikoyi. I admire you a lot sir and i must say your motivational words have really helped shaped my life.
I am one of the people that dreaded marketing as a career but as fate will have it i was posted to marketing .
Ever since the last time you talked to us at the training, I have cultivated the habit of reading books. In one of the books I got by BRIAN TRACY (no excuse) it emphasises the importance of having a mentor.
Being a marketer has been really challenging, owing to the fact that i didn’t have much prior experience before now, I have been an IT person all my life.
But I also read in a book that every habit or knowlegde can be learned and anyone who is a professional in any field of life was just a novice at one point in time .
I have taken up this challenge sir. I want to be successful in marketing. I want to do all it takes to stand out sir .
I know you are a very busy person but I also read in a book sir that people who are successful in their chosen field are always more than ready to help and assist young ones like us to know the rudiments and prerequisites to be successful in their chosen careers.
I really look forward to hearing from you sir".
Very smart guy, I must say.
I hope you're encouraged by the mail just like I was 6 years ago.
The Gatekeeper Strategy & Other Ideas - (6)- Activate Youth Wings
The late Bola Ige was once the Secretary of the youth wing of the defunct Action Group. He rose to the peak of his political career- becoming the Governor of Oyo State, a Minister and a Presidential aspirant.
The late Chief Remi Fani-Kayode was the leader of that same youth wing in 1954. He would become a member of the Federal House of Assembly and later the Deputy Premier of the Western Region.
The Action Group youth wing used the mosquito as their symbol and wore black shirts, black berets, black sunglasses and black boots. They marched all over the streets of Lagos demanding independence and resisted colonial rule.
ASUU has been on strike since March. That's 8 months now. I'm pondering a few questions and I'm seeking honest answers without prejudice.
Are the academic staff paid while on this strike? Or their salaries are withheld by the Government? Why should State-owned universities join Federal universities on strike when they don't have the same employer?
Why are they against the use of IPPIS that much when other public sector workers are on the payment platform? Should an employee insist on the type of platform an employer must use to pay his/her salary? Are state universities on IPPIS too? Are strikes effective nowadays?
Leadership: Think Of How You Can Add Value & Other Lessons
Exactly 5 years ago, it was my last day at work at my former organization and I sent out a valedictory mail to my team. It was a truly emotional experience.
I hereby share that mail I sent 5 years ago. How time flies.
My dear South West 1 Team,
This is a very emotional moment for me as I know goodbyes are not easy. I want to take this time out to sincerely appreciate each and every one for your support during my brief sojourn leading the team.
I call it a sojourn because life is a journey and not a destination. We will all never 'arrive' in the real sense of it and people must move on at certain periods in their lives. That is exactly what I'm doing. You've all been part of my life just like I have been part of yours.
“The only man who sticks closer to you in adversity than a friend is a creditor”- Unknown
I gave some background to how I was highly indebted in Part 1.
I zeroed in on the issue of greed in Part 2 and I focused on the 7 mistakes one needs to avoid while resolving the issue of indebtedness. There is a freedom that lack of indebtedness brings that is simply indescribable.
It was Henry Wadsworth Longfellow who said, “He looks the whole world in the face for he owes not any man”. You won’t be afraid of running into your creditors. You won’t be scared of opening your door when you hear a knock. You won’t constantly watch your back while driving.
The N50,000 Controversy: Never Marry A Man Who Has Television But Has No Vision
When I met my wife, my salary was N33,000 monthly. That was what I earned as an entry level hire then. Yes, I agree that N33,000 that time had more value than the same amount now.
However, to put things in proper perspective, a SIM card around the time when I got married in 2002 was about N20,000. My salary was therefore just a bit more than the cost of a SIM card. I recall that banks actually gave loans to customers to buy 'handsets' then.
My wife was in her final year at Olabisi Onabanjo University when we decided to get married. I was 27 and she was 25. I'd been working for barely two years. I didn't have a car when we started dating but later I was able to 'buy' a Volvo 340 DL through a miraculous intervention.
The Gatekeeper Strategy & Other Ideas - (5)- With All Thy Getting, Get Lagos
Let’s do a little bit of history.
In 2003, the party at the centre, PDP, launched a powerful political onslaught to ‘capture’ the South West States of Oyo, Ogun, Ondo, Ekiti, Osun and Lagos States.
It was a blitzkrieg that swept off all the Alliance for Democracy-led South West States and left only Lagos standing. Asiwaju Bola Ahmed Tinubu was the Governor of Lagos State then.
Using Lagos as pivot, Tinubu fought, expanded his influence in the Region and clawed his way back until a point all the States in the South West were back to a party in which he was a founder- the Action Congress. He was able to do this because of the immense resources of Lagos