This tweet made me think. It is an oddly true thing that I don't spend much time thinking about and is a product of a life lived, rather than anything that started with Trump.
My husband of more than 25 years is a White guy. I didn't need to overcome any ingrained fear in order to see him as a person or welcome him into my life.
That's one side of my being a Black person in America. I mostly see White people as just people.
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Another part of being Black in America is knowing that there are White people, thankfully fewer each year, who don't see me as 'just a person'. That's usually harmless to me, but I'm aware that sometimes it isn't.
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It means meeting new White people with an attitude much like I have when walking in an unfamiliar area. There's a heightened awareness. I'm not afraid or expecting danger, but there is a level of caution. I pay more attention, just in case.
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Although the hyper-awareness isn't a new thing that came with Trump, his arrival on the scene created a new thing to watch out for.
I am aware that people who willingly accept Trump as president are less likely to see me as a 'real' human being.
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The odds are against any specific Trumper being a danger to me. I'm not afraid of them. However, where other people automatically get the benefit of the doubt, knowing a person supports Trump is a red flag that means that I'm unlikely to give them that same benefit.
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On #CaturdayEve , I was thinking about telling the heartwarming story of the eye-patched curmudgeon who sits around working with a silly sword on his wall and an even sillier cat on his hat.
I doubt anyone would believe it, though. What do you think? Should I try it?
I met the old guy back when he was much younger, over 25 years ago now.
I didn't know then that he was permanent. He was sort of a stray, that I made the mistake of letting in my house and feeding.
You know how that sort of thing goes, right?
I mean, my kid liked him and he showed every indication of wanting to stick around. Next thing I knew, it wasn't just him, but his three kids, too.
I tweeted, a few minutes ago, about my awareness that some White people have difficulty seeing Black people as just other human beings.
I was struck by the women offering sympathy or expressing outrage.
(1)
As a Black person, I'm in the minority. As bad as it is, the ignorance of people who may be unfamiliar with folks who look like me is sort of understandable.
(2)
Women are more than half the world's population, though. There isn't a place on this planet where we aren't seen as 'different' from men, and in most of those places 'different' means 'less than' men.
(3)
I've been trying to come up with a tweet that explains why I think the progressive agenda is the right one for the nation but also explains why I think Joe Biden is right to reach out to those who will never embrace that agenda.
Both things are true for me.
(1)
We must create a nation that values each of its people in all the ways that progressives have laid out.
We don't need, and can't allow, the continuance of the icurrent 'make the rich even richer' philosophy that is killing us as a nation.
(2)
The radical right agenda calls for limiting and controlling people through hate and fear and a promise to return to a past that never was.
The radical left agenda calls for giving people the freedom and the security to actually decide on the nation's path to the future.
(3)
Other than the president, I don't hear many people talking about actually abolishing the police as a whole.
What I do hear is the voices of people who are deeply concerned by the murder of #GeorgeFloyd and others along with the many videos of police brutality against protesters.
You see, in that semi-mythical America that many people thought they lived in, the police are there to protect and serve us. Dangerous only to the bad guys and only until they are subdued.
#GeorgeFloyd was on the ground, though, cuffed and helpless.
In Derek Chauvin, we didn't see our 'hero cop.' Instead, we saw a murderer, enjoying his side-hustle when he should have been working for us.
We saw him, calmly and with apparent enjoyment, spend nine minutes slowly killing his helpless victim.
In spite of rumors to the contrary, some elderly Black folks are all in for Warren and things like free college education.
I know, because I'm one of them. Shall I explain why?
It has to do with my personal history.
Back in the 1980's, I was a young, single mother who had grown tired of jobs that depended on the strength of my back and lacked any clear path to bettering my situation.
I bought a typing manual, a type-writer and pushed my skill level up to 40 words a minute.
Just that, and the ability to pass a test of reading and basic math with a higher score that most of the others taking the test was enough to get me a job as a clerk. Over the years, I've promoted, within that same agency, to manager level.
I "shopped" on the evil Walmart to make checking my prices easier for those who doubt me.
Your menu is rice and bean burritos for lunch and dinner and egg burritos for breakfast. You have to make the tortillas from scratch, but that tastes better anyway.
Your second week is 'easier' because you still have plenty of beans, rice, flour and oil left from the first week.