To be candid many of us are unfair
We will know someone won't make a good husband or a good wife and instead of counseling such to remain single so as not to complicate the life of another person, we will be the one encouraging them and even matchmaking them all in the name of
sentiment.
I met a lady recently who told me her lecturer (female) was so good to her and talked to her about marrying her son (Who was in the UK)
She said she was single and open to the idea
The son comes home and the lecturer invited her to meet with him
She got to the house
and was treated like a queen
Then the young man's older comes to the house, and stylishly took the mother to the kitchen for a short talk. This lady said she wanted to take her plates to the kitchen when she overheard them talking
The older sister was saying "Mummy, you know he
is still dealing with that mental thing and you are pushing this young lady to him. What if he kills her? He almost killed the one he was living with in the UK and has refused to be treated or go for counseling since that time."
She said the mother said "Let them marry an at
least have a child. We will not say because he has some challenges he shouldn't have children!"
This is a very bad mindset
You should let his bad genes go to waste instead of spreading it to another generation
Many of us are guilty of this evil
Knowing the truth and hiding it
from potential spouses.
I know another family who knew their daughter was domineering, compulsive and difficult to live with. As members of her family, most of them can't stomach her.
Her mother started praying that the lesson she couldn't teach her
Her husband (being a young man
will be able to
She got married and made the life of that husband miserable to the point where the husband committed suicide.
Let us all stop this habit
Pastors do it and so does parents and relatives
it is like selling a defective product and hoping it will work!
Stop it please!

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