Why I state that a woman should be in your life for 6 months to a year before you get serious, while displaying:

1. low drama behavior

&

2. Consistent attitudes

Is because it's easy for women to maintain good behaviors for a few weeks to a month before their true colors show
Too many silly men jump into silly relationships too fast and when 'see finish' occurs, they come to cry "woe is me, woe is me"
There's this common notion that a man knows who he wants to be serious with the moment he meets her

Fine!

We know

The question now is, will the behavior of the woman earn his long term desires?

Will it?
That notion is bullocks

Men are being blackmailed into jumping into serious relationships on a hunch

How silly is this?

And no, jumping from one serious relationship to another filled with drama and the likes every time is not an option
Ideally you start slow with a woman, then she works her way up to something serious with you

Her long term behaviors and your level of interest in her will dictate where she ends up in your life

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11 Dec
Never start behaviors you cannot maintain with women; Texting/calling everyday, spending silly amounts of money, pretending to spend time with her without wanting sex, etc. When you fail to be consistent in these behaviors she has every right to be upset with you.
That's why a lot of women complain. Before y'all fuck you're allover the place doing all these silly things cus you think it's what will make her sleep with you. Naturally you'll stop doing most of these things and she will be upset. You have her silly expectations to begin with
If you instead maintain your normal attitude; you're calm, moderate and lite, you do what you can, when you can, and how you can, women who are attracted to you will have no choice but to enter your frame anyways. She will get used to the fact that
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If you set yourself up as goods, don't complain if men try to negotiate your price with you
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9 Dec
The Hard Next

This is when you permanently remove a woman from your life in all manner and form. You cut off all communication and block her on every platform, preferably. Maintaining contact with women you hard next will lead to unnecessary drama

Here are reasons to hard next
1. Physical violence

2. Stealing your money or property (women whom you stupidly send transport money to and they don't show up are thieves. They receive the hard next too)

3. Property damage. She breaks things at your place, etc

4. Breaks the law in ways that affect you
5. She messes with your children

6. Physically endangers you

7. Harmful lies; like DNA tests, etc (small small female lies are not next able offenses to me)

8. Extreme drug or alcohol addiction

9. Wastes your time

10. Any other SERIOUS red flags
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How to respond like a Sabi Boy/ Enlightened alpha/ Zen Alpha, when she asks...

Her: Sabi Boy, are you still seeing other girls?
Her: Sabi Boy, have you had sex with any new girls lately?
She finds something at your place that belongs to another girl

Her: Sabi Boy, whose earrings are these?
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Categorization°

Signs that she qualifies for a 'Lite Relationship' (LR)

1. She isn't addicted to drugs or alcohol.

If/When she takes these, she does so socially or for experimental or recreational purposes only.

Drug or alcohol addicts are kept as friends with benefits only
2. Her life isn't too problematic.

A girl with too much drama, violence or serious financial issues is a no-no for lite relationships

If she's oftentimes homeless, omoh.

For friends with benefits, it's fine if they have chaotic lives... As long as you don't get sucked into it
3. She can be any age above 18

But remember, if she's 23 or younger then she's probably still got a small girl's mindset in terms of irresponsible behavior, etc

Don't take her serious just yet till she safely passes out of 23 years
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