I agree with this. Part of the problem, though, is many of us have symptoms that our primary care doctor isn’t comfortable with. I’ve gone to urgent care before only to be sent to the ER. Eventually you learn that you are supposed to go home and “live with it” until you die.
There is no place in the medical system for people living with dangerous (but not immediately life-threatening) symptoms. Many of us need hospital admission, testing, and observation, but that essentially never happens.
I am sure there are other examples, but if you have Chiari, CCI/AAI, and/or occult tethered cord causing intermittent paralysis, severe central apnea/Ondine’s curse, dysphagia, blackouts, the ER will not take you. Neurology will not treat you. You can die, but you probably won’t.
I have a friend with a severe, genetic metabolic disorder. It took years upon years to diagnose and she had to get lucky—her labs appear abnormal only within a small window of time around her life-threatening episodes.
She’d been to the ER many times but was only diagnosed on the Nth trip. She still has to go to the ER for emergency intervention from time to time, and carries a letter explaining her diagnosis, but has to fight disbelief ALL THE TIME.
“Trust me,” if you don’t give me this intervention I could die. See this note written by my doctor who is a professor at a top 5 academic hospital.
We as patients must become better advocates for ourselves and must learn how to better use/access the system—we have no choice. But we/our behavior are not the problem.
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Genuine question: why is it so difficult for doctors to believe patients who are having a hard time breathing, not due to lung or cardiovascular problems, but rather, central apnea? It seems to be a fairly simple problem to demonstrate and measure.
Central apnea was one of my main complaints following my thyroidectomy. When I laid flat on my back, I would become paralyzed and locked in a perpetual cycle of repeated apneas lasting 30-60 seconds.
We had no idea what was going on—it is truly terrifying to not be able to tell your diaphragm muscles to contract at will—and after a few days, it seemed to be getting worse. I stopped being able to sleep, so one night, we went to the ER.
In one of my groups, we have a woman with profound urological symptoms, pain, and gait problems. Positive Babinski. She is trapped in an NHS hospital in agony, untreated. They won’t give her a urodynamics test. Her neurologist’s assessment? It’s psychosomatic.
Another woman is having profound breathing problems, likely due to central apnea (very similar to what I had). She can only inhale four times a minute. Gets worse when laying flat. She is unable to get anyone to take her seriously. They’ve decided it’s psychosomatic.
I already know that if she has Chiari or CCI, she is very unlikely to have access to surgery in her country, even if that is what she needs.
Folks concerned about my advocacy for structural, neurological diagnoses, for #MCAS and connective tissue disorders, or for "#MEspine"––I really do want to understand what is at the heart of this. Frankly, it has been hard.
There is a lot of misinformation floating around (or simply lack of education/awareness––again, it's a lot of different conditions, and I know next to nothing about most of them, other than the ones I happen to have).
I see a really big gap between how American patients are responding to this information v. patients in the UK & Europe, and I don't fully understand all of the reasons for that. I think that's worth discussing amicably, if we can.
I can walk 14 miles in a day (but don’t recommend it!). I was able to build up to doing vinyasas like I can kind of do vinyasa...but all that twisting stuff? Bad, bad.
The weird thing is, since doing it, I can essentially tug on the fascia in my feet via upper body motions. I got on a call earlier today with two friends who have EDS and started to say, ”I know this sounds weird, but...”
Vlad hits the nail on the head here. A lot of it is being generated by discussions on @s4me_info, a UK patient forum. I do my best to keep my mouth shut, but this has all been unbelievably painful and has taken a major toll on my mental health.
I know most forum members don’t engage in this discussion and may not even be aware of the running commentary about me and everything I say, but I am shocked that it is tolerated. (Anyone with a differing POV has long retreated, been put on moderation, or banned.)
I try to do my best to ignore it, but people point things out to me from time to time, thinking they are being helpful.
We need a healthcare system that explicitly allows for two other specialty tiers that (at least in the US) informally exist:
1) the specialist internist (a PCP for specific diagnoses and complex cases that a “generalist internist” cannot possibly handle well)
2) Super specialist specialists. The handful of -its who exclusively see patients with the same diagnoses, like my neurosurgeon.
He was able to diagnose in 24 hours what 30+ MDs had failed to see. Because for him the “weird” and “rare” is what he says five times a day. If you have one of the handful of conditions he specializes in, he can save you a decade or more of frustration.