I am still shocked that it is 15years already since you left me down here. How are you holding up and what is happening up there? It has been a crazy time for us this past year because of a deadly virus.
A lot of people died and the world is still suffering from it. At least you do not get to see all that now. I am sorry I always bring you bad news from down here even though I was hoping not to share any more bad news with you this year.
I am sure you, dad and step mum have all met up and perhaps living in the same house up there. I am sure God can organise that for you guys? Remember when I wrote you last year right?
I brought some more news for you this year which will make you smile. I know you keep blaming yourself for leaving me but please worry not. Grab a glass of drink, cross your legs and hear the sweet gist.
So you know I told you I was now married to an amazing woman who challenged and pushed me to start a PhD right? We are already a year plus into our marriage and damn!! It has been nothing short of amazing.
We still get to piss each other off once in a while though but is that not what you and dad used to do sometimes?๐.
Anyways make sure you do not do it up there. We are allowed to down here. lol.
Now the big news, are you ready mum? We now have a beautiful daughter (Zoe Ana Chimdindu). Please do not ask me the meaning of the names because I know you guys have free wifi up there. Just google it๐. Ohh!! She is so adorable and reminds me of you and your charming smile.
Now you see why I say you should not worry right? I have 2 ladies looking after me now. They are so lovely and kind to me. Bless them!!. Now see how you are smiling, I knew you were gonna get excited.
Now brace up for the next one. Oh!! You thought I was finished? Get yourself another glass of drink for this one. Last year I told you how Squeezim(@zinnezi ) pushed me to start a PhD right?
What I did not tell you was that my research is on the same disease that took you away from me.๐ญ.
I am happy I get to do this research and hope that my research will prevent many people from losing their mothers like I did.
Now you do not need to worry too much because I am doing my bit to make the world safer and better.
What makes my program even more interesting is the amazing holistic support I enjoy from my 2 supervisors Dr. @endinequity and Dr. @jodurham19.
Please appear in their dreams and thank them both for being so kind to me on my journey. Please do not scare them, wear white clothes only๐.
I am glad I made you smile and happy in my letter, unlike the previous ones where you shed a tear with some of the bad news I brought.
I do not wanna keep you any longer because I know u are also busy but remember to always put in a word for me during your meeting with God.
It looks like your intercession is working. How else do you explain the unmerited favours, blessing and growth that I enjoy?
15 years ago you left me while I was still in high school but look at me now, your son is on his way to bagging a PhD.
I will bring more news to you next year when I write to you.
Be rest assured that Junior will make you proud.
Being a PhD student and new to the research life, the rigorous process of ethical application for a complex study like mine pushed me to my limits.
Although I had very supportive supervisors, they did not spare me in being critical of my work. In fact, my principal supervisor Dr @endinequity will say "Aaron sometimes it is best to be blunt with you about your work".
The bluntness sharpened me and made me more resilient. I took these comments with a smile because I knew it was for my own good.
I know you have been delayed by incessant ASUU strikes. I know you should have graduated by now but you are still stuck. While you feel down, I come with a few words that you can take note of:
1. You have not lost any time and you have not been delayed. This is the time to strengthen your skills.
Take up volunteering and internship positions while you are home and waiting to graduate. Remember that they will boost your CV and SOPs in the future.
2. Do not rush, we will not run out of international scholarships. They are always there for you. Make a deliberate list of the scholarships you want to apply for when you graduate.
Look at their eligibility criteria. What are they? Do they need IELTS, GRE, TOEFL?
Today, I offer you a few workable tips to assist you in the search for supervisors.
1. Go to the staff page within the department or school website and look up lecturers whose research interests align with yours.
2. Another trick is to use the search bar on the website and type in the key terms of your research or interest. E,g Professor in public health/accounting/English etc. You can then instinctively navigate the page through the results.
This VERY long thread will break down the process of writing an SOP using six questions that have worked for me in the several admissions and scholarships I have secured.
Get a drink and let us begin.
Writing an SOP requires thorough research and planning. Writing an SOP involves writing a story of your academic and professional experience.
Remember that volunteering or internship roles also count when you are writing your SOP.
It is important to tell a coherent story from start to finish of your SOP. This allows the assessors to link your passion with your academic and professional trajectory.
It is also very significant that you allow others (mentors, friends, professionals) to review your essays.