The child who is taught that their emotions do not matter, becomes the adult who struggles with acknowledging their feelings.
The child will become the adult who lacks emotional awareness. Who does not know what emotion feels like in their body. Will feel emotions like it’s their first time experiencing it, every time.
Imagine that you’re filling water in a glass. Water is your emotions, the glass is your body.

Someone who doesn't have good emotional awareness will only see the problem when the water finally overflows, and *not* when it’s dangerously reaching the brim.
The child will become the adult who holds their emotions in until a faint breeze comes in that makes them break.
The adult will end up getting trapped in this cycle of not acknowledging the problem until they have to clean up the mess. They will lack emotional accountability and the inability to create spaces for emotional safety for themselves and others.
Let’s change this by prioritizing the need for acknowledging the body. It’s not healthy to go weeks on end without checking in with yourself. It will always end up with the glass overflowing. Slow down, sit down, and take some seconds out of your day to ask how you’re feeling.

• • •

Missing some Tweet in this thread? You can try to force a refresh
 

Keep Current with iya eh-hee-may

iya eh-hee-may Profile picture

Stay in touch and get notified when new unrolls are available from this author!

Read all threads

This Thread may be Removed Anytime!

PDF

Twitter may remove this content at anytime! Save it as PDF for later use!

Try unrolling a thread yourself!

how to unroll video
  1. Follow @ThreadReaderApp to mention us!

  2. From a Twitter thread mention us with a keyword "unroll"
@threadreaderapp unroll

Practice here first or read more on our help page!

More from @ehimeora

7 Jan
You don’t need to give out the title of ‘friend’ to everyone who is kind to you. Kindness is basic human decency. Go a bit deeper.
You wouldn’t date someone just because they’re kind, why should friendship be any different? Friendship is like any romantic relationship. It’s worked on by establishing a mutual sense of trust.
I find that betrayal will often occur because people claim everyone as their friend. Don’t make the mistake of confusing associates and acquaintances for your real friends.
Read 4 tweets
6 Jan
A gentle reminder to my black people to have their ancestral altar up with a machete on there.
A machete, a knife, a gun, it do not matter. Not to invoke fear in anybody, but an altar serves as protection for you, your family, and your house.

The weapon is for your dead folk to use, but for you as well. We gonna be in this energy of civil unrest for a bit.
You can practice any religion and have an altar. Bottom line is, every black household needs one.
Read 4 tweets
6 Jan
Mars really couldn’t leave Aries without drama.
Mars is currently sitting in critical degree of 29 in Aries.

Mars = planet of war
Aries = sign of war

29° = critical, volatile, implosive tension.
When it moves into Taurus in less than an hour we’ll see how we take the the volatile of Aries and run with it for a long-period of time. Mars in Taurus brings persistent protests that will be long lasting on both sides. People won’t be able to shake this for a bit.
Read 4 tweets
6 Jan
It doesn’t matter if your industry is over-saturated. No one can do it like you. You better lean all the way in.
Please start that patreon, that podcast, that youtube, get serious about your twitter & instagram, show yourself! Because what the industry is missing is YOU. Do not sleep, beloved.
Look at the aisle of bread and eggs in a super market! There are so many different brands to choose from, and some people have a favorite one. You can be somebody’s favorite one. Everyone can eat.
Read 4 tweets
6 Jan
I am absolutely DEVASTATED. The Ancestral Adinkra Cards is the only deck you have ever seen me use, because it was one of the few decks that channeled ancestral messages with such ease.

She changed the game forever. Please set a light for her to guide her across realms.
Ms. Simone Bresi-Ando, thank you for your work and revolutionizing blackness in the spiritual deck industry. You will be fiercely remembered.
Every time I used this deck, I felt the ase of her skill and her love. Always. Those that have ever got a divination from me also got cards pulled from this deck, every time. Ancestors absolutely cherished this deck more than any tarot deck I ever came across. Heartbreaking.
Read 4 tweets
3 Jan
Over-explaining yourself really is a trauma response.
I really believe that those who grew up in an environment where they had to process other people’s emotions to be safe are the ones who constantly over explain.

A constant need to be made sure that you’re understood, even from people who are committed to misunderstanding you.
Over-explaining is people pleasing.

Because to the over-explainer, they’ll explain themselves more than necessary in hopes that those who disagree will agree. In hopes to avoid conflict. In hopes to be liked.
Read 8 tweets

Did Thread Reader help you today?

Support us! We are indie developers!


This site is made by just two indie developers on a laptop doing marketing, support and development! Read more about the story.

Become a Premium Member ($3/month or $30/year) and get exclusive features!

Become Premium

Too expensive? Make a small donation by buying us coffee ($5) or help with server cost ($10)

Donate via Paypal Become our Patreon

Thank you for your support!

Follow Us on Twitter!