this "article" perfectly performs the kind of transmisogyny hella non-binary ppl enact in the Bay against Black TW. ppl who r less marginalized claim they're being excluded from (often non-existent social spaces, like what trans (feminine) social space?) hunterthelion.medium.com/transness-does…
not being "validated" by other trans ppl (which almost always refers to trans women)--it's probably going to be the next official TERF dog whistle btw. is not & does not carry the same weight as the abject murderous state & private violence this "author" compares it to. GROSS!
it's so fucking gross to see someone use black trans women's abjection, murder, loss, lack of a social, lack of ability to (collectively grieve) our constant loss of a social, to complain about their gender expression not being "validated" by ppl who have no social power to do so
maybe ppl need to drop the language of "validation" & start thinking abt how identity as individual expression or individual possession is not & has rlly never been a sufficient precondition for community & in many cases is antithetical to the practice of community
dismissing the work/organizing & death that black trans women have done & experienced so you can fucking breath & create your fake-ass corporate woo hustle (like this person), as part of "the gender binary," is fucking gross, transmisogynst, anti-black, narcissistic nonsense
"the erasure & shrinking of nonbinary people is a result of antiblackness. The enemy is forever the global demand for Black death. And, everyone who is not nonbinary and outside of the binary perpetuates this killing and erasure of nonbinary identity, validity, & space-taking" 🤮
claiming "the gender binary" as an abstract & materially unmoored concept is anti-black/transphobic actually. do u mean prisons, the military--the things that enact gender violence/uphold the HIERARCHY that trans women DO NOT benefit from? is that what u mean w "gender binary"?!!
this is such a gross transmisogynst, neoliberal take. ppl rlly need to be more critical of how they wield their individual (gender/sexual identity) validation against wide-scale structural violence, otherwise your egoistic nonsense is just showing us u don't deserve community tbh
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why do articles like this keep throwing black TW under the bus?
centering cis ppl's abject definition of trans as the audience for validating your transness IS a reification of the authority of cisness, which by definition constructs the gender binary
"So many ppl have internalized the idea that transness is defined first, always, and only by accumulated death."
specify that this is cis ppl & stop acting like black trans women are lording our deaths over you as a neoliberal social identity category & not a material reality
"ppl grow comfortable w being transphobic towards nonbinary ppl because the violence transgressed against our bodies has not yet been directly translated to death"
how do u know murdered black TW aren't non-binary? this is a weird speaking for the subaltern assumption to make
6 months of stealth dating & i gotta say it's nice to not get "good for you/i rlly like your make-up/well look at you/yass sis" messages from cis women & non-men & to experience ppl just being fucking normal to you & not treating you like an abjection/pity fetish or easy sex. its
also nice to avoid dates w ppl who are "gender curious" ie ppl who clearly want to take you out just to project a lot onto & extract a lot from your transness ("so like when did you know...yeah I wore pants once too & 🤯...wow you're so brave") (a kind of chaser?)...buuuuut
idk how girls do this long-term (i understand w men the potential for (some) safety). i imagine cuz heterosexuality is already rooted in gender antagonism it's not hard to date men w the expectation that you'll never possess shared experiences of gender or being in the world, but