why do articles like this keep throwing black TW under the bus?
centering cis ppl's abject definition of trans as the audience for validating your transness IS a reification of the authority of cisness, which by definition constructs the gender binary
"So many ppl have internalized the idea that transness is defined first, always, and only by accumulated death."
specify that this is cis ppl & stop acting like black trans women are lording our deaths over you as a neoliberal social identity category & not a material reality
"ppl grow comfortable w being transphobic towards nonbinary ppl because the violence transgressed against our bodies has not yet been directly translated to death"
how do u know murdered black TW aren't non-binary? this is a weird speaking for the subaltern assumption to make
"Gender is violent and it is violence." This is actually a TERF line btw
I've a HUGE problem w this take it's so Western & white, language is gender like what do u mean by gender? do u mean the law, gendered violence, prisons, or the HIERARCHY that enacts (coercive) gendering?
this kind of thinking actually reifies the violent abstraction of the social that produces "gender" it's "legitimation by reversal" it's NOT the decontructive take ppl think it is
it also violently overlooks histories of sociality constructed against & under the brush of gender
it's a weird Western liberal Englightenment take that assumes simply cuz we have "better" language now, we are more free (sounds like Rousseau)
what abt the black trans women, hair faeries, queens who didn't have your language, were they imaginative in their freedom dreaming?
"We can simply make the commitment to understanding transness as expansive, gender as violent"
again this is ahistorical & just so un-attuned to the way especially black & indigenous ppl have constructed alter/counter social worlds that r gendered (incl as trans) AFTER THE FACT
if gender is the law (and it is, why are y'all simply arguing) for more laws, "better" laws & (implicitly) harsher penalties and therefore more reductive practices of humanity?
like "trans" has already been indoctrinated into the neoliberal order of state/market violence incl.
PRIDE flags, medicine, militarism, so what world are you actually arguing for, what world do you want & need?
i think the latter is something ppl need to actually think abt instead of cloaking their needs in low-hanging transmisogyny & un-FLESHED out abstractions
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this "article" perfectly performs the kind of transmisogyny hella non-binary ppl enact in the Bay against Black TW. ppl who r less marginalized claim they're being excluded from (often non-existent social spaces, like what trans (feminine) social space?) hunterthelion.medium.com/transness-does…
not being "validated" by other trans ppl (which almost always refers to trans women)--it's probably going to be the next official TERF dog whistle btw. is not & does not carry the same weight as the abject murderous state & private violence this "author" compares it to. GROSS!
it's so fucking gross to see someone use black trans women's abjection, murder, loss, lack of a social, lack of ability to (collectively grieve) our constant loss of a social, to complain about their gender expression not being "validated" by ppl who have no social power to do so
6 months of stealth dating & i gotta say it's nice to not get "good for you/i rlly like your make-up/well look at you/yass sis" messages from cis women & non-men & to experience ppl just being fucking normal to you & not treating you like an abjection/pity fetish or easy sex. its
also nice to avoid dates w ppl who are "gender curious" ie ppl who clearly want to take you out just to project a lot onto & extract a lot from your transness ("so like when did you know...yeah I wore pants once too & 🤯...wow you're so brave") (a kind of chaser?)...buuuuut
idk how girls do this long-term (i understand w men the potential for (some) safety). i imagine cuz heterosexuality is already rooted in gender antagonism it's not hard to date men w the expectation that you'll never possess shared experiences of gender or being in the world, but