In december of 2003, Joyce Vincent died of an asthma attack in her North London flat. The television was left on.
The mail continued to be delivered. Her rent was set up to be automatically deducted from her bank account.
The days rolled by and no one noticed she was gone.
Those days turned into weeks and the weeks into months.
There were large trash dumpsters on the side of the building next to her unit, so the neighbors never thought much of the smell emanating from her flat.
The floor was full of noisy kids and teenagers and no one questioned the constant thrum of television noise in the background.
Eventually, Joyce’s bank account dried up.
Her landlord sent her letters of collection. These letters, like the others, simply fell into the stacks
scattered about her floor. They went unanswered.
Finally, with more than six months of overdue rent, the landlord got a court order to forcibly remove her from the premises.
The bailiffs broke down the door, and it was only then her body was discovered.
By then, it was January, 2006, more than two years after she passed away.
In that time, nobody ever came looking for Joyce Vincent. No family or friends. No co-workers. No neighbor knocked on the door to see if things were all right.
TRY AND KEEP AT LEAST ONE FRIEND
Morals:
Fellowship in small congregation so that your pastor would notice your absence
Set close friends and family on speed Dail
Be there for others.
We owe each other love, affection.
Some people proudly say. "I've lived here for 5 years and I don't even know my neighbors. No dear, you should not be proud of that. You should be ashamed of yourself.
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I once worked in a hospital in Lawanson, Surulere. One evening around 9pm, I was on my way home when two men intercepted me. It happened around Boluke Pharmacy by Otunba bus stop. The light was bright and people were passing by but nobody stopped.
They showed me a pistol and asked me to bring my phone and all my belongings. There was no way I was giving out that phone. That was the very night I was expecting a text message that could change my whole
They cocked the gun and threatened to shoot but I stood my ground.
They took my wallet. Luckily I had left my debit cards in the hospital at the suggestion of one of the nurses on night duty. The wallet contained about 6k. They hit my head and dealt with me severely then left.
An 8 month pregnant wife had a little quarrel with her husband this morning which got physical. She grabbed a kitchen knife and amputated the man's penis. When next you want to advocate against domestic violence, remember that it can be both ways.
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UPDATE: This man would have bled to death if he was not rushed to the hospital because the penis has a very rich blood supply. The blood supply to the penis is CLOSE to the brain's. Bleeding was immediately controlled.
His penis can't be re-attached because it "died off" so to speak before it could get to the hospital.
This man will not be able to have sex for the rest of his life. This man will be urinating via a catheter(a rubber tube passed into his bladder) for the rest of his life.
A Doctor friend once needed money to pay for his Medical License and Plan his Induction Reception. His budget was about 400k(License, University Induction Fee, Suit and Accesories, Reception) . He didn't even have upto 50k in his account.
A senior colleague, a Senior Registrar he had been very loyal to, promised to give him 100k. 3 weeks to Induction, Chief stopped picking and returning his calls.He never heard from him again. He ran into the SR after Sponsio.He didn't apologize.He pretended as if nothing happened
He even asked my friend to help him pick his children from school which he did.
After Housemanship my friend was posted to Kogi which happened to be the man's state 4 Service. When he posted 'Kogi Kopa' on Facebook, d man called him and told him that he had accomodation for him
Survivors thinking they are bad, wrong, dirty, or permanently flawed.
* Boundaries
Because sexual violence is such a boundary violation, it impacts the survivor's perception of when or how to set boundaries
Survivors may be unfamiliar with boundaries in general; they may not know that they have a right to create and reinforce them. Many survivors need support developing and practicing boundaries.
* Trust
Sexual assault is a betrayal of trust. Most survivors find it difficult to
trust other people as well as themselves and their own perceptions. On the other hand, they may place an inappropriate level of trust in everyone.
* Safety
Survivors' sense of safety has been altered; they may assess unsafe situations as safe and perceive safe situations as
GIVING YOUR BABY WATER CAN MAKE HER COME DOWN WITH MALNUTRITION
A newborn baby's sromach is very tiny.
It can admit only 6-7 mls of contents at a time. This is about 2 teaspoonfull.
At the end of the first week, it can admit upto 10 teaspoonfull of contents only.
Apart from this, a baby's stomach can't stretch like an adult's own.
Hence, your Baby Should be Fed with Breastmilk alone for the first 6 months of life.
The baby should not be given water. When you give your baby water, you fill up the tiny stomach and leave little or no space. Your baby hence feeds less of breastmilk which contains all the nutrients she needs. This can cause Malnutrition.