My husband just entered the U.S. for the first time, and the U.S. CBP agent who interviewed him was an Arab who joyfully shouted "Salaam aleikum, welcome to America" at the top of his lungs while stamping his passport, so I'd say it's pretty clear the atmosphere has changed.
Apparently he repeated it several times, loudly, while looking around to make sure all the other officers heard him. Must have been a rough four years 😂
I love my country so damn much. We made it. Onward and up.
P.S. there is still so much work to do, but we have been trying to get my husband a visa since 2017. We moved three countries and maybe a dozen houses. Every time we thought they couldn't screw us around anymore, they did. We're tired and numb, but we're coming home. It's a start
There seem to be some white supremacists becoming Very Upset about foreign invaders in response to these tweets. My husband is a biomedical engineer and project manager with two post-grad degrees, so...I guess you can consider yourself replaced
I'm overwhelmed by the love and support here. It just goes to show that decent people who wish each other well vastly outnumber those who need to hurt others to make themselves feel important. Thank you all for your well-wishes.
Let's move forward. Let's evolve. Don't look back
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Former @TheAtlantic managing editor @jenzerb writes about the environment of toxic masculinity there under previous EIC James Bennet, who was replaced by @JeffreyGoldberg. This piece validates so many of my problems with the way legacy media treats women. jenzerb.medium.com/i-left-my-care…
@TheAtlantic@jenzerb@JeffreyGoldberg Also came across this while reading, from Mr. Goldberg. Yikes. It really hit home because that seems to have been the attitude I've received from so many male editors at magazines: you've been writing for web, you're probably not good enough for a print feature (I wrote a book)
Anyway I'm probably torching any chance I have with these outlets by tweeting like this, but frankly I don't care. I'm tired of seeing talented, hardworking women journalists, including myself, looked past and diminished in favor of men who don't even realize how sexist they are!
So Republicans can incite a white supremacist insurrection that provided cover for an attempted terrorist attack, actively and willfully spread a deadly virus ravaging our country, and not only face zero consequences, but have the chutzpah to complain that they're being silenced.
I'm sorry, was that too biased of me? Perhaps I should have afforded equal weight to the outrageous positions of the people who almost destroyed my country; so as to give them an even more inflated sense of their ability to break the law without repercussion.
It's not biased to report from the perspective that people who for years enabled and supported a man who tried with almost every avenue at his disposal to illegally seize power and turn the U.S. into a dictatorship, should endure public scrutiny and face official consequences.
Really want to stress that cancelling your @nytimes subscriptions is not the solution. Consuming--and funding--less good journalism is not the answer. Being rigorous consumers of the news who hold sources of it accountable from a place of informed engagement is a better approach.
The reason I am telling you not to cancel your Times subscription is because there are places in the world where indescribable things happen to human beings, and the industry is in freefall, so most journalism there is really only being done by NYT and a handful of other outlets.
If enough of you cancel your Times subscriptions, there is even less money and space to tell important stories from overseas, and interrupt America from our constant navel-gazing. I just don't think that can be a good thing until we figure out better ways to tell those stories.
Literally nothing makes me angrier than institutionalized, unacknowledged sexism. I'm indescribably tired of being implicitly held to different standards because of my gender. I'm tired of watching less talented/qualified men be taken seriously when I have to fight so hard to be.
I'm tired of the army of male trolls waiting to leap on my every typo or error/correction, twist it beyond recognition and hold it up to the public as evidence that I'm not good at my job/crazy/not very bright. I'm tired of men in this industry being so quick to believe them.
I'm tired of watching my female friends in the media be torn apart and shunned for things men do with literally no consequence whatsoever. I'm tired of being treated differently, I'm tired of having to explain myself all the time, I'm tired of working so hard to prove my worth.
I don't know who needs to hear this, but traditional media just failed us hugely. Journalists with no real stake in the damage being done insisted on reporting down to the partisan rabble. Their inability to deviate from convention normalized a situation that was entirely insane.
The solution is not to do away with standards of objectivity in journalism. Taking a step back and coolly examining a subject from all angles is important. Fighting bias in your reporting is crucial. That doesn't mean you should get fired for expressing an opinion on Twitter.
ALL JOURNALISTS HAVE OPINIONS. We're not robots! But as an example, anyone who follows me here knows I have lots of opinions. But I've been trained to put my opinions aside when I report. I still have them, I can express them on my own time, but they don't belong in my journalism
Absolutely shocking that @nytimes fired Lauren Wolfe for her tweet when Thomas Friedman and Bret Stephenson together have fallen on their faces countless times all over their pages; forget about Twitter. Really shocking gender bias, caving to bad faith criticism and just cruelty.
Lauren did not deserve to lose her job because a mob of right-wing trolls and Glenn Greenwald rightly bet that a woman showing vulnerability while witnessing an historic event would be a popular target for partisan scorn and draw disdain from employers. Very sad to see this.
P.S. if she were a man none of this would be happening, and I will block any man who tries to argue with me about this. Just accept that you don't know anything about being a woman in the media and think before you @