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Abdullah A Abdullah

12 Feb, 8 tweets, 2 min read

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If your wife lives perpetually with your parents , siblings or relatives, without a privacy of her own (a separate room, convenience and kitchen) it will only be a dream to think she will be comfortable in that arrangement, and it is unlikely she will be happy in it.

If any of your relatives live in the same house with you, it will take the grace of God and your maturity to ensure peace and justice in that house. Make sure you clearly spell out everyone's limits, "This is my wife, and this is my blood" without putting one down for the other

If your parents are old and need support, then it is your duty as a Son to take care of them like they did you while you were young. If that is not possible then get them a maid.

Your wife's duties are to you, you can not sublet her as a contract staff to your parents by force unless she opts to do that on your behalf, of her own volition. We have to reckon that when we get married, we are marrying a human not a slave.

Build a healthy relationship between your parents and your wife such that they see and treat her as their daughter while she sees and treats them as her parents. If you can achieve such synergy, you will have solved a lot of problem, but we know this is not always the case.

You are then to serve as a just and fair bridge in between. Your wife must respect your parents, as she deserves to be treated with just as much respect as is accorded you,

If a wife is maltreated by her in-laws it is usually because the husband tolerated it.

Women who hate their in-laws by default, should not forget that they will be in-laws some day, and what goes around comes around, be careful what you plant today.

Some women get angry when their husband takes care of his mother. They want him all for theirselves. Don't forget you will be a mother-in-law too someday. Do not dish out what you can not receive.

May Allaah rectify our affairs. Aameen

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