Dating is one of life's most important skills and yet no one teaches it.
SO...
Here are 7 must-read books that will dramatically improve your dating life.
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Here are 7 must-read books that will dramatically improve your dating life.
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0/ Intro
Who you decide to spend the rest of your life with is probably the most important decision you'll ever make.
BUT...
No one teaches you about how the dating process works or how women view dating differently from men.
Fortunately, these books are here to help.
Who you decide to spend the rest of your life with is probably the most important decision you'll ever make.
BUT...
No one teaches you about how the dating process works or how women view dating differently from men.
Fortunately, these books are here to help.
1/ "No More Mr. Nice Guy" by @dr_r_glover
If you've ever been called a "Nice guy" this book is for you.
The truth is that Nice guys aren't actually nice (I was one once).
They act nice because they believe they're saving up points to cash them in later to "buy" your love.
If you've ever been called a "Nice guy" this book is for you.
The truth is that Nice guys aren't actually nice (I was one once).
They act nice because they believe they're saving up points to cash them in later to "buy" your love.
Making hidden contracts is just one of the ways Nice guys aren't nice.
This book will teach you how to:
β’ Set healthy boundaries
β’ Stop seeking approval from others
β’ Be masculine in a positive manner
Don't be a Nice guy, instead be a Good guy.
This book will teach you how to:
β’ Set healthy boundaries
β’ Stop seeking approval from others
β’ Be masculine in a positive manner
Don't be a Nice guy, instead be a Good guy.
2/ "What Women Want" by @TuckerMax & @primalpoly
This book has the best of both worlds:
β’ Tons of real-world dating experience from Tucker
β’ Tons of research and data about dating from Geoffrey
It's an excellent dating 101 guide for finding and attracting women.
This book has the best of both worlds:
β’ Tons of real-world dating experience from Tucker
β’ Tons of research and data about dating from Geoffrey
It's an excellent dating 101 guide for finding and attracting women.
You'll learn how to:
β’ Develop attractive traits
β’ Display attractive proofs
β’Β Shift the mating market in your favor
And more.
It's filled with great stories as well as a ton of scientific studies to back up the authors' advice and mating strategies.
β’ Develop attractive traits
β’ Display attractive proofs
β’Β Shift the mating market in your favor
And more.
It's filled with great stories as well as a ton of scientific studies to back up the authors' advice and mating strategies.
3/ "A Billion Wicked Thoughts" by @ogiogas & @SaiDrGaddam
What can a billion porn searches tell us about the differences between male and female sexuality?
A LOT.
Ever wonder why men watch porn but women read porn (romance novels)?
What can a billion porn searches tell us about the differences between male and female sexuality?
A LOT.
Ever wonder why men watch porn but women read porn (romance novels)?
Why women are attracted to vampires and werewolves?
The difference between a woman's sexual fantasy and a man's sexual fantasy?
Why women worry more about emotional cheating but men worry more about physical cheating?
This book will explain why and so much more.
The difference between a woman's sexual fantasy and a man's sexual fantasy?
Why women worry more about emotional cheating but men worry more about physical cheating?
This book will explain why and so much more.
4/ "Mars & Venus On A Date" by @MarsVenus
Did you know there are 5 stages of dating?
I sure didn't.
Well here they are:
1) Attraction
2) Uncertainty
3) Exclusivity
4) Intimacy
5) Engagement
In each stage, Dr. Gray shares common mistakes for why things may not work out.
Did you know there are 5 stages of dating?
I sure didn't.
Well here they are:
1) Attraction
2) Uncertainty
3) Exclusivity
4) Intimacy
5) Engagement
In each stage, Dr. Gray shares common mistakes for why things may not work out.
The book shares advice on:
β’Β How to pursue women without being needy
β’ How men and women experience the 5 stages differently
β’ Common mistakes that lead to breakups
β’ How to flirt and communicate with women
And much more. Highly recommend this for both men and women.
β’Β How to pursue women without being needy
β’ How men and women experience the 5 stages differently
β’ Common mistakes that lead to breakups
β’ How to flirt and communicate with women
And much more. Highly recommend this for both men and women.
5/ "Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus" by @MarsVenus
This book is an in-depth guide into the minds of both sexes.
It literally translates "girl talk" into "guy talk" and vice-versa.
For instance, men and women interpret complaints and compliments differently.
This book is an in-depth guide into the minds of both sexes.
It literally translates "girl talk" into "guy talk" and vice-versa.
For instance, men and women interpret complaints and compliments differently.
The book also explains:
β’ Why women sometimes want men to just listen without trying to solve their problems
β’ Why men like to have their space and retreat into their cave
β’ Why men are like rubber bands while women are likes waves
Another must-read for both men and women.
β’ Why women sometimes want men to just listen without trying to solve their problems
β’ Why men like to have their space and retreat into their cave
β’ Why men are like rubber bands while women are likes waves
Another must-read for both men and women.
6/ "The Man's Guide To Women" by @GottmanInst
John and Julie Gottman have spent 40 YEARS studying relationships.
This book explains how to attract, satisfy, and succeed with a woman for a lifetime.
The book is filled with a ton of advice on what to do and what NOT to do.
John and Julie Gottman have spent 40 YEARS studying relationships.
This book explains how to attract, satisfy, and succeed with a woman for a lifetime.
The book is filled with a ton of advice on what to do and what NOT to do.
For instance, the 4 Horsemen of a bad relationship are:
1) Criticism
2) Defensiveness
3) Contempt
4) Stonewalling
You'll also learn what to do when your partner is upset or feeling insecure. If you want your relationship to last, read this book.
Then read it again.
1) Criticism
2) Defensiveness
3) Contempt
4) Stonewalling
You'll also learn what to do when your partner is upset or feeling insecure. If you want your relationship to last, read this book.
Then read it again.
7/ "The 5 Love Languages" by @DrGaryChapman
The lesson from this book is simple yet impactful.
There are 5 different ways people express their love.
It's important to know your own love language as well as your partners to maximize the success of your relationship.
The lesson from this book is simple yet impactful.
There are 5 different ways people express their love.
It's important to know your own love language as well as your partners to maximize the success of your relationship.
You'll learn about:
1) Words of affirmation
2) Acts of service
3) Receiving gifts
4) Quality time
5) Physical touch
I'd recommend taking the online quiz to find out you & your partner's love language then reading the book for more details on how to better express your love.
1) Words of affirmation
2) Acts of service
3) Receiving gifts
4) Quality time
5) Physical touch
I'd recommend taking the online quiz to find out you & your partner's love language then reading the book for more details on how to better express your love.
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What's a dating/relationship book you'd recommend people to read?
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