I don’t think I talk about it explicitly much, but generally speaking I’ve always thought it makes more sense to acquire more wealth & influence than to argue about it with strangers. Like even a dollar is worth more than yelling at some anon online
this can seem cringe but it’s also true that a lot of the people who argue about who’s in charge of the world or their country etc could spend more time thinking about how much of themselves they’re in charge of, and how good a job *they* are doing as monarch of their domain
which isn’t to handwave away systemic failings, but how much can you really influence The System directly? I say this as an optimist who wants to make a difference!! My assessment and reading have led me to believe that it requires playing a very, very long game, strategically
hmm... [spaces out] at the end of the day... a lot of what I’ve been thinking about for a long time, here and elsewhere, is the nature of strategy, and how unstrategic people tend to be, for understandable and yet frustrating reasons
so my playbook is like
rather than yell at the guys at the big table and hope that leads to something
build your own little table and invite the best people you know
use that to build power & influence & find more people still
expand the table, connect with other tables
It’s interesting to navigate the objections and criticisms have of this
one is “all tables bad”, which... ok
another interesting one is that some people actually pedestalize the big table and think they are relatively worthless in comparison - they accept the moral hierarchy!
it’s something like how some atheists still have God at the center of their lives - as an object of derision, sure, but haters are fans too, and a heterodoxy that’s just an inverted orthodoxy is still following a script very closely. Some people do this with all authority figures
while there are skilful, artful ways to embody these positions - thoughtful anarchists etc - they can also be used in blundersome ways as smoke screens to avoid facing up to one’s own power, one’s own authority, and the responsibilities that come with that
my friend Chelsea once wrote this really thoughtful article about how, as the founder/CEO of her company, her team looked to her for stability, leadership, guidance, etc - and her natural tendency to go “haha idk lol” was neither serving her nor them. Cuteness has its place
Some people avoid this by never being founder/CEO of anything, but you can’t run from responsibility forever. At the very least you are responsible for yourself. You can try to run away from that but historically this isnt an effective strategy & it tends to lead to bad outcomes
old thread where a younger, less experienced and more frightened & confused version of myself is making sense of all of this:
I feel like I skipped past a point that’s important to make: people who shroud themselves in a cloak of righteous anti-authoritarianism are the often ones who get away with being vindictive, manipulative bullies towards the people in their own crew
this doesn’t mean authority (order) good and anti-authority (chaos) bad, obviously life is about balance and creative destruction and so on. It’s just tragic to hear about young people who are shocked to find themselves being abused by vocal anti-abuse advocates
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i mean, will your local police admit to this? 😂 a lot of the stress in life I think comes from the bullshit pretenses. when we put aside the pretenses we can have more honest conversations about wtf is going on
I still suspect that the person who posted this tweet was someone on the social media team who was tired of the lies and bravely chose to say the quiet part out loud. good! I hope they're ok and wasn't fired for this, or if they were, that they're doing ok regardless
when I was younger I thought that talent was rare, but as I get older I realize that the answer is so much weirder than that. talent is not ~super~ rare. but talent hides, talent often doesn't want to be found, talent is scared, talent is clueless
you could revise the definition of talent such that "it's only talent if it's also brave, bold, sensitive and savvy, otherwise it's just sparkling potential" or something of the sort... I'm in two minds about that
it's just so strange to contrast how
there's this whole sphere of people who have minimal talent, minimal taste, but they're just really loud and obnoxious about LARPing success, and they even get some of it in a tedious sense
then there's talent that's scared, or just clueless
it's a lemon market problem – I'm sure some people asking for 5 minutes are just sort of awkward nerds trying to be respectful, but the most common 5 mins asks IME are sleazy salesman types, and fuck those guys
also a thing that happens as you get "bigger" is... weird social prestige stuff? some people seem to want facetime because they think the facetime is intrinsically valuable somehow. "i wanna meet you someday" oh why? "to ask you stuff" you can ask me now! I prob alr have a thread
in 1997, statistician David Banks wrote an essay titled "The Problem Of Excess Genius" – why are some periods and places so astonishingly more productive than the rest? His primary examples are Athens, Florence and London + another set of minor examples (Paris, New York)
he lists out explanations that historians give in conversations (peace, prosperity, freedom, new paradigms), but argues that they don't quite match up to the actual history
his own observations:
- preceding military victory
- high rates of social intercourse
- education (the role tutors in particular)