My grandmother Tzivia Feiga Dorfman passed away earlier today.
She was 88.
She was my link to Judaism - both quite literally, my mother's mother - but more importantly spiritually. She had a love for Yiddishkeit that inspired and directed her entire family, each in their way.
She was tenacious and proud - living through personal turmoil and crisis, growing in her faith and dedication on the way.
She was active in addiction education, speaking with the late Rabbi Abraham Twerski, bringing his work to Montreal.
She sent packages to her cousins, trapped in the Soviet Union, and sponsored a Persian Jewish family to help them escape Iran when the Shah fell.
She’s survived by my mother, Mushka Lightstone, uncle Yechiel Dorfman, grandchildren and great grandchildren in Canada, America and Israel.
She asked me once in Yeshivah what I needed. I told her the truth, I needed some socks. For a solid two years after she sent me a 24 pack of massive while gym socks, probably once every six months, in order to keep my feet warm.
When I was in yeshivah in Montreal, she used to complain I wasn't eating properly, and would insist that I had to come over for a steak.
No one else was allowed to have it - I don't think she'd let my grandfather touch it even. It was just for me.
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Over Simchas Torah I heard a rather powerful memory.
Someone recounted how one of the elderly members of the community once told him, as a child in Riga his grandfather would take him on Simchat Torah to the Cantonist's shul
These were special synagogues frequented by the Jewish child soldiers forcefully conscripted into the czarist army.
The Cantonist's would have a special hakofa. They would strip off their shirts, revealing the scars from lashes on their backs from resisting forced assimilation
They would proceed to hold the Torah scrolls on their backs, against the scars, and say "Torah we love you, we hope you love us as much as we do."
They would dance that way. Jews kidnapped for decades, raised away from the community, with the Torah pressed to them.
In terms of other things that were due today though perhaps not as momentous:
My profile on MAD's Al Jaffee (and other comic legends!) decades long partnership with @chaba dropped today!
When he put down his pencil last month at the age of 99, the creator of the Fold-In spoke to me about his masterful work on The Moshiach Time's hero: the Shpy!
"The Shpy wasn’t just some superhero. I had to draw a character I could get into. I really put myself into [him].”
In 1980 the Rebbe launched Tzivos Hashem, his youth organization. The cover of the flagship magazine,The Moshiach Times, was sent to him for editing.
For example, the Rebbe wanted to make sure that every cover had a girl on it, not just a boy.
Ok. Everything around Jersey City and the violence, and the stupid online Jewish divisivness in the face of tragedies and all this garbage has me feeling pretty awful inside. So I'm gonna share some positive things I saw out of all of this
This chasidic guy in the Supermarket knocked the gun pointed at him away and ran out. In his note about what he saw, he said he saw one of the chasidic kids from the school walking towards he store to buy a treat. He intercepted him soundcloud.com/mottel/eyewitn…
This moment where one of the non-Jewish members of the Jersey City community offers to help with cleanup or anything else he can
It's amazing how unbelievably cheap some Jewish blood is to others.
A clear reminder that as long as you terrorize and attack the right (read Chasidic) type of Jews, not only doesn't it matter, @TheRAC and @URJorg will give you praise & adulations. washingtonexaminer.com/opinion/op-eds… #RAC19
I'll be clear, any @ReformRabbis from @JonahPesner and down that doesn't get up and walk out when @TheRevAl is called up, is displaying the same moral turpitude as making claims of "both sides" after Charlottesville. #RAC19
I can't even. The willingness to wash away our pain is so cruel. #RAC19