As the front page of today's @NYTimes starkly depicts a year of grief, the back pages include a death notice of my mother, who passed away two weeks ago of natural causes. Four months ago in October, the Sunday Times had a similar notice in memory of my father. Rest in Peace. (1)
Obituaries, like tweets with their character & line limits, feel inadequate for describing the loss of my parents. But publishing their passing in the paper of record of my hometown--of which I still get Sunday editions--seems an appropriate marker in a time of social distance.
Twitter is such a public forum, and my parents were not public people--but perhaps the newspaper obituary and social media posts are a way to mark how much they mattered, to me, and many others.
My mother, Annie Edith Chang Vega, born in Ecuador as one of 17 children, immigrated to the US, and married my father, Dana Anthony Wright, for 54 years. Another only-in-NYC story of a Chinese-Ecuadorean immigrant meeting an Irish-American at a German dance club. RIP. (4/)
My parents, may they rest in peace, raised me in #TheBronx with a focus on family, education, thrift, & problem solving practicality. Even if they didn't quite understand what I ended in doing professionally, they prepared me for it in their own way. They were good parents. (5/)
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