advice for improving your dating profile
"I must confess I have a weakness for big butts, it's a problem. should I talk to a therapist about this??"

"I often get into trouble for blurting out what I think. a sensible man would learn to quit doing that. I am not a sensible man"

the point is to match your utterances to fit your personality

I'll get even more mean: if you don't know what your personality is you are not ready to be dating

but you can figure out a first draft pretty quickly, ask your friends and family to describe you

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