After she passed, my siblings and I returned to Cavan to help clear her things.
We gave away personal items: clothes, jewellrey, furniture and trinkets to family and friends.
I bagged up all her books.
Carrying the first load to the car, Dad stopped me, “Where you going with them?”
“I’m taking them to the charity shop.”
“You are not.”
“There’s bag-loads; what you gonna do with them?” I asked.
Dad was a mild-mannered man, but I vividly recall his steely-eyed resolve as he said, “I’ll keep them son, that’s what I’ll do with them!”
Imagine, he couldn’t let go of her books.
I don’t know what they meant to him, I never asked.
But I do know it’s a beautiful-book-story.
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After 30 years in London, I’m moving back to Ireland.
Clearing through my flat, I’m feeling reflective and feel the urge to tweet about my Dad.
I need to talk about my Dad, and finding Happiness.
Like many Irish youngsters of the 50s, Mum & Dad travelled to England to find work. Dad found work on the building sites, Mum found work as a Nurse.
Then they found each other & married.
They had my brother & sister, and after almost a decade they had their baby – me.
I wasn’t like my brother. He was fearless & football mad. I was fretful & football frightened me.