Everyone deserves due process. Title IX at many universities has been broken a very long time. I had a horrific experience in the early 2000s when a colleague was falsely accused. Have seen much ridiculousness since. This is NOT a partisan issue. Justice matters for everybody.
The title IX investigator in that case made her decision before hearing any evidence: he was guilty. When I was called in to testify, I told her all the evidence the accusation was false & done for purposes of the accuser keeping a job that was due to expire.
I got so frustrated with the title IX investigator, I started crying. I was afraid my colleague would unjustly lose his whole life. She told me my tears were proof I knew he was really guilty. It was a miracle I didn't punch her.
After it was all over, they found he had done nothing wrong. But they gave the false accuser a semester off of teaching for the stress the investigation had caused her. No shit. I asked who can I falsely accuse to get a semester off teaching?
It was not long after that that I quit my tenured job at MSU. This was one of the reasons -- the feeling of being in a system that had no rationality to it. It was also irrational in terms of my attempts to balance new motherhood & work.

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We did this successfully when I had to flu and neither the mate nor kid got the bad flu I had 2 years ago. So we know it's doable. And maybe I won't get sick. He's vaccinated. The kid is away at school. Could be a lot worse. And maybe I won't get sick.
Just remembering that in Feb. 2020 I warned people to be ready to divide houses to quarantine the sick/exposed from the healthy/unexposed. We are lucky to space to do this. Weather getting warmer helps, too, for using the porches. And I have my writing shack out back.
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I spent a while last night on the phone with someone who is pretty well known and being cancelled in a way that will destroy his life. I hadn't heard of him before he reached out to me with a note that made me worry he was suicidal. 1/n
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Gynecologist: What are you here for?
Me: I've reached the age of polyps and my internist thinks I have one on my cervix.
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Me: Two in my colon, one on my cervix, the occasional skin tag. Apparently being 54 turns one into a mushroom farm.
Told the mate this when I got home. He said, "You forgot your toes."

Awesome.
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I just had to use it (with a glass of wine) for a data problem. It worked. I taught it to my sister last year, as a trick, when we were texting intensely about mom without realizing we were using a thread that had mom's phone included. 😱
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