1) In ’63 Betty Friedan wrote the The Feminine Mystique. It described a widespread discontent among women. She concludes her 1st chapter with:
“We can no longer ignore that voice within women that says: 'I want something more than my husband and my children and my home.’"
2) What was the “something more?” Friedan claimed it was a career. “The problem that has no name” stemmed for a woman’s single path of fulfillment namely being a wife, mother & a keeper of the home.
This, argued Friedan, didn’t allow women to grown full humanity.
3) For a woman to become, she must liberate herself from the “conventional picture of femininity.” Only then will she “finally [begin] to enjoy being a woman.”
They must pursue the “creativity” that allows them to find their potential or they’ll remain “less than fully human.”
4) This was a lie. Friedan wasn’t your average housewife. She was leftist radical involved in union activities in 40s-50s. Even during her marriage, she had a p/t career as a traveling freelance journalist. She wasn’t some chained down housemother. That was a marketing ploy.
5) Also, this “widespread discontent” could be better be described as the discontent present among some college-educated white middle-to-upper class who found conventional femininity boring. Friedan was trying to mainstream her discontent.
Misery loves company.
6) Much of Friedan’s argument relies on other discredited intellectuals of her time. For example, she pulls much from Margaret Mead’s "Coming of Age in Samoa" to argue for a nascent version of sexual fluidity (aka sex is nurture, not nature). But, much like Friedan, Mead lied.
7) Friedan’s vision has largely come to past. All career paths are open to women. Work force integration is a reality. It isn’t the “career woman” that is looked down upon. It’s the "poor" housewife and mother.
All that discontent should be declining, right?
8) It shouldn’t surprise us that alcohol abuse, drug abuse, and mental illness is exploding disproportionately among women.
Women are unhappy. The easy way to manage this unhappiness is to medicate and deny.
Reality is “hurtful.”
The pain is too much.
9) Friedan lied. Feminism lied. Feminism failed.
It didn’t lead to freedom but a prison.
Anyone seeking to wake women up and help them to face the reality of their situation will be resisted and demonized.
10) God's design is the surest path to happiness.
Marriage and motherhood are good.
Men aren't the competition.
The sexes exist as a complement to each other.
Don't kick the can down the road.
Embrace the goodness of femininity now.
You can miss out and you don't want that.
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1/ There is an excellent phrase contained in a personal letter John Calvin wrote to his good friend Guillaume Farel. Calvin had just a received letter from Geneva asking him return to the pastorate after having been expelled just a few years earlier.
This letter includes...
2/ ...the following sentences:
"O marvelous spectacle, the stone which the builders rejected is become the headstone of the corner. Come, then, my venerable father in Christ. The Lord has given you to us. All sigh for thee."
When Calvin wrote Farel he described the letter as...
3/ ...being “full of nauseating flattery.” That is a helpful phrase.
It is difficult for me to believe that the majority of Christians would find such a letter nauseating. Some might raise an eyebrow up in concern but few would be nauseated by flattery.
1 Today is a real American tragedy. No doubt about it. Only the wicked or the naive aren’t grieved by it. The incoming administration is truly abominable.
This is a major setback for freedom loving Americans and especially Christians.
2 The presidential pardons show that there aren't any maverick moves on the way. It is the end of this administration.
And it’s good to grieve the end of an administration which attempted to root out the corruption and compromise rife in our government.
So grieve. I am.
3 But this brings me to my biggest problem with most of the YouTube/website wild claims floating around…
…they basically urged Christians to be passive and wait for something to happen. It was the whole "trust the plan" mentality.
Would you run for your life or just stand on the beach as a gigantic tsunami rushed towards you?
You’d run, right? Don’t be so sure.
During the Boxing Day Tsunami, many vacationers just stood on the beach and watched as the ocean receded into a monstrous wave...
The locals knew better. They ran as hard as they could. But some of the foreigners stood on the beach, stared in amazement, and were engulf in a deadly mass of water.
Why didn’t they run? Why did they just stand there like a bunch of idiots?
Because tsunamis weren’t a normal part of life in their country. They knew that tsunamis existed and that they happened in this part of the world. They, however, had never seen one. So they underestimated its danger and were slow to take actions.
1. Don’t go offline or camp out some little right-wing ghetto apps (ie Parler). Stay active on the main platforms. But expand and “back up” your online network “offline.” Big Tech will cancel, censor, & silence anyone that speaks against the zeitgeist.
2. Build an analog library of important books and documents. Also, download ebooks/PDF to an external hard drive.
Big Tech will delete works that undermine their plans and speaks against the zeitgeist.
3. Find a community that is a “winnable and worthwhile hill.” This is a place that is small enough for you to have influence, large/strategic enough to have some cultural, economic, and/or political significance.
Ask “Could this town/county become a city-state? Put down roots.