Love is universal, it can never be between distinct entities. When one realises oneness, true love follows. The sense of man and woman is dead when one attains true love. 1/n
However, we see that in nature every object animate or inanimate tries to attain oneness knowingly or unknowingly. For, instance we dress according to mainstream since we want to feel one.
Carnality is a futile attempt to unite the masculine & the feminine principles and so on
Such attempts are worthless as its foundation is itself based on change. Like, the mainstream apparel fashion changes etc. and everytime we too change.
This can never result in love, it leads to despair as is widely evident. So love has no boundaries, it is simply infinitely vast, strong and invincible.
Second, Love is not attachment.
Attachment is that which gives you pain. Love is that without which you cannot live. If love becomes attachment, then the same love which was giving you joy, starts to inflict pain. Attachment is when you want something in return.
The Narada Bhakti Sutras or the aphorisms of love talk at great length about Bhakti or divine love.
"Having attained that, there is no more craving, no desires, there is no sadness, you do not hate anything, nothing else seems more rejoicing" - 5
One goes beyond philosophical maya when one loves the entire world selflessly and not just one's relatives and friends. This love for the entire world, compassion, is called Daya.
"Kalau Namasamkeertanam" is what the Kaliyiga dharma of teaching the lotus feet of Parabrahma. The most easiest way to reach Bhagwaan in this Kaliyuga is Nama smarana and samkeertanam. One must not forget this Dharma at all.
When Hiranyakashipu asks prahlada what has he learnt in his journey, prahlada explains about the Navavidhana / Navarasa / Navaratnas of Bhakti. The small child explained the 9 colors of Bhakti to the entire world in short showed the way to reach the depths of Bhakti Paravasyam.
His baby voice says
Sravanam kirtanam vishnoh smaranam padasevanam
Archanam vandanam daasyam
Sakhyam AtmaNivedanam
iti pumsarpita vishnau bhaktischennavalakshana
Kriyeta bhagwati addha tan manye adhitam uttamam - Bhagwatam
Manglik Dosha can be Rectified - Not as deadly as it sounds from Astrologers
There are many abou 90% of a population sample suffer from Manglik. Manglik is not actually a dosh always., but the positions of the planets gives various results in various positions.
Shastra bhedas occur and there are more areas in consideration as per southern beliefs apart from the regular positions 1st, 4th, 7th, 8th and 12th house. 2nd & 5th position also have effects of mangal. Which ever position it may be if one knows they are manglik & are unable to
++fund solutions regarding materializing a job, marriage, progeny, relation issues & Debts should preferably start praying Kartikey / Murugan / Shubramanya / Murugan , Hanuman and Maata Mangala Chandi
Many people jump into the chanting of Beejas of Navagrahas & install yantras to attain impulsive results for various issues being faced in life. It is natural that a worrying mind can't decide properly on what to choose.
Graha Sthiti can be dealt and improved by many ways
1. Grah Devta Sholka Mantra 2. Graha Daana 3. Graha Ruling Devta Puja 3. Navagraha Pradakshina 4. Gau seva related to Graha
The last preferred is Yantra & Bija Japa.
There are various reasons for not taking up at first.
Navagrahas are very strong influencers of a human's life & the japam & tantra requires complete attention & daily puja and neivedya without miss. Shaucha & Niyamas are must. So the rest 4 ways are preferred for correcting th graha issues as much as possible.
People who wish to observe upwas on Chaturdashi ( Maha Shiv Ratri ) should avoid eating rice on the night before the chaturdashi I.e on Pradosh (Trayodashi).
Fasting on Maha shivratri starts before sunset, by taking a river/ sea bath.
People having no facility of river or sea can simply take Head bath on that day. ( No shampooing or Abhyangana Snaan) prefer cold water bath.( People with complicated health issues avoid cold water)
Wear washed and folded clothes , avoid crumpled ones
Start your day with usual puja and take sankalp of the upwasa and pray ganesh ji for nirvighn( without obstacles) vrat. Off2r jaggery as neivedya and start your fast with any puja you want to perform. People do one round of abhishekam in the morning. Do your regular pujas.
During the war of Murugan/ Kartikeyan and Tarakasur whenever Murugan tried to kill Tarkasur and split him into pieces using the Shakti Vel the body used to rejoin and gain it's shape. This was a surprise at all levels to Murugan.
He was thinking of multiple ways to understand what exactly is helping Tarakasur to join back and gain immense power. With help if Narayana's vaani he came to know the secret behind this. Bhagwan Narayana said that until the Shivling worn by Tarakasur on his neck isn't broken ++
He wouldn't be defeated at any level. This Lingam hs to be broken down by the Vel and then the power of Tarakasur will be lost. Narayana guided once the Lingam will be broken dwn the pieces will try to join back and Murugan has to prevent it by ensuring the pieces to be fixed
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