There’s nothing inevitable about history’s gaze. But as more and more trans people tell the world who they are and acceptance grows, I truly believe that we will someday look back at this spring as another of America’s many shameful chapters on human rights.
Whether it marks the start of a long, shameful chapter or the end of one is up to all of us.
In the long term though, I don’t think that this backlash against trans people will win. The internet pushes people to novelty in a way that would make it impossible to put the lid back on gender diversity without structural changes. If people know they can be trans, some will.
The victory of anti-trans bigots would require broader cultural shifts offline towards greater valuation of conformity and if anything American culture in the age of highly-individualized algorithms and niche internet subcultures seems to be moving in the opposite direction.
These last two thoughts are probably what my mind churns over most often recently. Partly survival instinct, of course, but the way that technology begets culture begets history is fascinating to me.
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The disinformation being spread around puberty blockers on this website looks a lot like the disinformation around vaccines, and often it seems to be coming from the same people. The overwhelming consensus of medical professionals is that puberty blockers are safe and effective.
Furthermore, nearly every discussion around puberty blockers that centers cis skeptics fails to acknowledge that for trans youth, going through the wrong puberty can lead to changes that may require years and thousands of dollars of medical procedures to remedy.
Nor is the age at which puberty occurs some permanently-fixed biological milestone. On average, girls begin puberty today five years earlier than they did in the 1920s. There's absolutely nothing wrong with buying more time.
I want to highlight the trans kids featured in this excellent Guardian article by @SamTLevin because I think the debate about trans rights often gets lost in hypotheticals and fails to include the people with the most at stake
Wyatt had to walk all the way across his high school to use a staff bathroom. His friends say they don’t care what bathroom he uses. He is 14 years old.
Ava was relieved that the Utah bill to ban her from swimming failed. She hopes to be able to swim in high school. She is 12 years old.
Arkansas just banned ALL trans-related healthcare for trans youth while also defining biological sex as relating to reproductive capacity, which should make everyone nervous about where this authoritarian political movement is headed. This is not a culture war. It's just a war.
Do cis people talking about "rapid-onset gender dysphoria" honestly not know how stupid they sound? Like, the entire thing about being in the closet is that you don't tell the general public about it.
And then when you're finally ready to come out, the changes you want to make to the way you present yourself feel horrifyingly overdue. They might seem sudden to an outside observer, but they've been building in your head for decades.
Here is a list of people I told I thought I might be trans before I was 28 years old: 1) my high school girlfriend 2) my parents, who still claim I said nothing 3) my best friend, when I was extremely drunk
And all of that happened when I was like 20.
There is no debate about the best way to treat gender dysphoria. A year and a half into hormone therapy, I genuinely don’t think I would ever experience dysphoria at all if not for fear that people taught to hate trans people might spot me. I love my body. It’s home.
Probably gonna regret saying this but I’ve had zero surgeries to get to this point and I’m not sure I will have any, and it is so frustrating to hear my rights debated by people with literally no idea what they’re saying who invoke surgery over and over again to scare people.
A year before coming out, I did have a bunch of procedures to correct some horrible varicose veins on one leg. It made me feel SO much more confident in my body and it was empowering to live in a society with the technology to make that happen.
Can a nation conceived in violence, dedicated to the proposition that straight white men have a god-granted right to the land, labor, and lives of every other type of person, redeem itself? Today, even more than most days, I am not sure that it can.
One thing I know for sure is that we will never be better if our conversations about bias continue to be centered on intent rather than impact. It doesn’t matter if a white man says he wasn’t racist or phobic or whatever. It matters that he felt entitled to end peoples’ lives.
It matters that Asian people are being killed in this country, that sex workers are being killed in this country, that trans people are being killed in this country, that Black people are being killed in this country. That’s the impact. That’s who I want to read about in the news