Great Revoice find from @ShawnMathis1972: a Student Ministry Director at a PCA church says he and his straight roommate have decided to become a "household" and, should the one marry a woman, she will become part of their "family." Clips incoming: pastormathis.com/index.php/2021…
"We're totally committed to finding a way to live together and function as a household...if I get a job someplace and that means a change of location, that's a decision we make as a family. When he has a wife one day, she'll make those decisions with us."
"There's this fear of falling in love...it makes me scared that it'll be painful to watch him get married...he just, like, loves me so much as his friend and his brother."
Bro.
I can't fathom how difficult celibacy is. Lots of respect for committing yourself to it.
But don't add the burden of constant friend-zoning to that. You know that's not gonna end well.
I can't fathom how difficult celibacy is. Lots of respect for committing yourself to it.
But don't add the burden of constant friend-zoning to that. You know that's not gonna end well.
PRIVILEGE CHECK: "As a straight person, it's been so easy...for me to go: 'Well, I'm uncomfortable, so you need to change, because I'm in the majority'...Maybe I'm uncomfortable because of a good and healthy boundary, but maybe there's homophobia."
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