@lilyq1011 Exactly. Stop explaining your choices to people who don’t care about you. They are not entitled to it.
Also, stop answering questions that people should not be asking you. Just because someone thinks they want to know something doesn’t mean they get to.
Also, stop answering questions that people should not be asking you. Just because someone thinks they want to know something doesn’t mean they get to.
@lilyq1011 Women especially have trouble with these ideas, which are really just setting healthy boundaries. It see it with young female lawyers & clients.
You don’t have to answer every question! You get to decide each time whether it’s in your interest to answer or not!
You don’t have to answer every question! You get to decide each time whether it’s in your interest to answer or not!
@lilyq1011 “What if they get upset?” So what!
“What if they won’t stop asking?” Leave.
“What if I’ll feel bad?” Get over it.
Get yourself some backbone & some boundaries.
“What if they won’t stop asking?” Leave.
“What if I’ll feel bad?” Get over it.
Get yourself some backbone & some boundaries.
@lilyq1011 “He won’t like it.” Care more about what you like.
“That would create a problem in our friendship.” Get a better caliber of friend.
“She’ll give me the silent treatment.” Good riddance.
“That would create a problem in our friendship.” Get a better caliber of friend.
“She’ll give me the silent treatment.” Good riddance.
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