I think we have to say emphatically there’s a place for our emotions with God and each other— whatever they are. God wants us to come to him with all our baggage and wounds. He wants us, not an idealized version of us.
He doesn’t promise to immediately vaporize our sorrows or problems but asks us to lean into Him as the safe haven of home that will lead to healing and joy, many times without God removing the thorn in our flesh.
Our ultimate goal is healing from depression and anxiety but that might not come in this life. We can experience some relief through therapy or medication. And we can still experience joy and happiness and love while having mental health issues.
We also need to say that the first thing someone with anxiety and depression may need is just a loving, open presence of acceptance. People “know” the right answers but the problem is that they cannot feel it at that moment.
As God’s people we’re called to be the absolving presence of the Gospel, so that by our love *God* might open the door for communicating his truth. God’s goodness through hospitality is often the key that opens the door to sharing the truth.
But this doesn’t need to be immediate or the first response. If someone is mourning or grieving in some way, just BE with them. Share Christ’s empathy and compassion. People need to feel loved before they can be preached to.
People know they are loved when they are defended, given a voice, feel our loving presence, and their dignity is upheld.
Giving people the “right” answer might be the worst thing to do in that moment. Don’t try to be the Holy Spirit.
I know that I’ve messed this up many times and need to work on it. I’ve had to learn this the hard way. But it’s still true. 😁
I know that I’ve messed this up many times and need to work on it. I’ve had to learn this the hard way. But it’s still true. 😁
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