Thread by @Chinmayi

This is something I have never understood. I get a LOT of messages like this from really young girls about their own mothers and grandmothers calling them sluts.

What’s with this behaviour? And why do daughters have to tolerate this crap of being called sluts by their parent?

Wear Nailpolish - Slut
Some nosy relative aunty / uncle says “oooh i saw her with this cousin” - OH Slut!
Any type of clothes WITH dupatta, slit and bra strap not showing - Slut.

I’m telling you. A lot of people should NEVER have been parents at all.

To women who feel upset when called a slut - I’d say don’t be. It is difficult but please don’t feel insulted even if your parent/s, crappy family do this to you.
Unfortunately responding with ‘Yeah So what?!’ Would result in manic physical abuse by the family.

If you’re down with the crappy karma of having such parents and relatives, grit your teeth, get the education, get a job and get out of your house.

Choose your partner VERY carefully and heal from this mother / father wound. This is the worst ever thing to go through.

Exaaaample sample abusive parent.

Please understand parents can be abusive and it is absolutely OK to distance yourself from them for your own well being. Until they understand boundaries and how to speak around you. Birth-giving, rearing you is not a free ticket to abuse.