Thread by @theBuoyantMan

NOBODY CARES.

This is the truth.

Everyone's got their own life and their set of problems to deal with.

No one actually thinks about you or your choices, your life decisions, etc., enough to judge you.

So, go do what you want to do, and make yourself satisfied first.

Be unapologetic about not being or doing what other people want you to be/do.

You're not born to measure up to other people's expectations.

Sure, you have to co-habitate with others.

But that doesn't mean you are born to fulfill their wishes or expectations.

Do your best.

Do only what you can.

If you can't do something and that upsets someone, even if it is someone dear, you can be sorry that it upsets them, but you shouldn't ever be sorry you weren't able to do it.

You did your best.

And, don't care about whether other people are judging you, what others are thinking about you, etc.

Those who are worthy enough that you take their opinions seriously - will not have time to judge you or think of your choices/decisions.

And, those who usually sit around judging you, passing comments, laughing and ridiculing you, and trying to pull you down, are generally not those who are worthy enough of looking up to for opinions.

Their life has an empty bareness that they do these things to fill that void.

So, next time you're tempted to think about what would people say about your choice, or what would they think about it if you put your work out - remember

those who mind ,don't matter
and
those who matter, wouldn't mind.

And, in case if someone who matters to you judges you and is upset with you,

refer to the third tweet of this thread.