This profound quote depicts the VP abuser of a mega para-church ministry. I worked under this narcissistic VP for 5+ yrs. It was hell and it ended with him abusing a number of us in a urban ministry. Gaslighting was 100% in his DNA for nearly everything he did or said.
His spiritual, emotional, psychological abuses; along with his harassment of a staff woman and his constant pattern of threats & secrecy made it impossible to trust him and the complicit leaders over him—who knew what he was doing. The abuses led to PTSD (hospitalization & years
of counseling); to a staff woman harassed who was not allowed any outside legal counsel; to a Black couple who experienced discrimination, racism & physical threats; to entire leadership team who resigned over his leadership. But what makes it worst is the lead HR person covered
for him; the US National Director (now the president of the world wide org) protected him as they are great friends—total cover up & being complicit. Then the BOD did nothing but protect their golden boy! You wonder why people leave the faith but when you experience this and all
it’s cover up and then slapping on NDA’s suffocating our voices & stories it makes this org totally disqualified. Only if donors knew? They take in $633 million/yearly and if the story could be told the monies would dry up. But when your the big guy (org) you have all your
lawyers, PR firms. NDA’s, leadership covering for other leaders abuses it becomes nearly impossible to break thru to have the media tell the true story of this org and the history of broken lives that served as missionaries!! So yes gaslighting is real and underneath it all
IS ABUSE, DECEPTION, CONTROL AND BLATANT SIN! Grateful that a few friends have stood up on Twitter like @vhobbs5 to do their own investigation. But we need a army more to expose the biggest para-church org in the USA & likely the world!
They must be exposed for who they are. @DianeLangberg told me “that they(org and leadership) are a brood of vipers” How very, very TRUE!
Your article today was so needed in my own life due to the abuse many of us experienced in a mega para-church ministry. Thank you @CasMadeHerRoll

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25 Apr
I was confronted by a person recently, "just break the NDA & get on with it". Not that easy! Some of us who are missionaries do not have a boatload of monies to hire attorney's & once you have been abused (resulting in PTSD) one will fight or flight. I am a fighter but when your
up against a $633/million dollar supposed Christian org; that has multiple attorney's working for them; have a Religious Order that muffles the voices of ALL present staff in the org; & leadership from the President and & BOD who will not do a 3rd party independent investigation
it is devastating, it can totally wear you out, it affects your health, mental health, spiritual health, and the list goes on & on. The recent letter I got from the Pres (that protects the VP) stated clearly in his letter to me they will not agree to any of these '5 demands':
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21 Feb
As we struggle w/ possibly declaring our story regardless of our NDA we deal w/ the para-church ministry, which abused us & others. The org is so wealthy & so powerful that they would want to squash us with legal proceedings & sue us for damage. Ministry takes in $633 million/yr
and they have an army of attorneys and PR firms at their whim. Plus being missionaries for 45 yrs it's not like we have $$ to spend on hiring our own attorney. But the truth must be told for the sake of other missionaries still there & those who left the org abused and fearful.
Please pray for us to have wisdom as I battle PTSD from the VP abuse & the other leaders complicit with the VP. Grateful for counsel from a few legal experts & so many on Twitter who have cared. Plus we watched as the truth became clear for @LoriAnneThomps2 & we rejoiced for her
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