If you’re a young person trying to find your feet, trying to hold down what you’re currently into and you keep doubting yourself, this is for you.
You will be shocked at how many incompetent people are bulldozing their ways through life and winning, simply because they’re not insecure. So ruthless about life, they’re not worried by the fact that anyone would think they’re not good enough.
You will be shocked at the number of competent, creative and intelligent people who literally get lost in this world because they are insecure. Some completely forget they were always in the conversation. They never do. So they never become.
You’re insecure for a reason. It is valid. Maybe past failure, a solid acceptance that you’re probably not made for what it is you do. But here’s a funny possibility: with the same capacity and in the same circumstance, far less competent people have excelled at it.
When you feel inadequate, first understand why. If it is valid and factual, find the courage to try something else or get through it by leveraging on associated competencies. When you finally can, try something else.
If your doubt is perceptive, you just somehow feel like you’re not going to be good at it simply because of how you perceive it, then use this perspective: anything you have put effort into, leaves you better. If talent doesn’t do it, growth will. It always does.
Everything you see today — the most sophisticated versions of every day life — are products of effort and consistency. Try, not always to immediately excel or see results, but because every effort stretches you to grow. And effort is mostly what it takes.
And I will always say this: whenever you lack courage to do anything productive, remember that every person you see wear an exaggerated version of themselves. Inwardly, we’re mostly a series of self-defeats. Do it or not, life will simply go on.
Let people motivate you. Compete with the courage that people have; not the results or silver linings peculiar to them. Courage is how people live on their own terms. So do it for you. You’re you. And no one else can be youer than you.

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When Nigeria finally dies, two things would have caused it:

1. The failure and refusal of the leaders to provide security, social justice and public goods; AND

2. The failure and refusal of the citizens to forcefully demand (1).

Every word counts here.
The leaders will not willingly provide security, social justice and public goods. Elections will take a very long time. Nigerians must forcefully demand it. To forcefully demand it, we must be ready to fight for it. We’re not ready. So we won’t demand it. We won’t get it.
The fact that we won’t demand it is because we can’t. We can’t demand it because we can’t die for Nigeria. We can’t die for Nigeria because Nigeria doesn’t deserve it. Nigeria doesn’t deserve it because it is not in the right path. To grow, you have to first be on track.
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Even if I wasn’t one of the lawyers on the deal, I still wouldn’t comment. A non-lawyer can rile me up to have a full blown argument here. If I understand that you’re ignorant, and unteachable, it doesn’t matter that you can’t see it. I ignore you as a favour.
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Everything is timed. You have to be available always. Millions-of-dollar transactions depend on you. It literally eats into your mind. How many things can you concentrate on at a time? All it takes is one call or email and everything else drops in priority.
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Bringing it home a bit, most of us remember golden moments of childhood and as we grow older, it becomes even more golden in our memories. We conveniently forget the anxieties and insecurities that surrounded our childhood.
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